u see, i a very timid guy of the highest-order, i mean, i inherited this from my late father and now its afecting my social life. iso now i want to know why are all ladies very stiff and proud always wait for men to talk to them first...more timid guys may die of loneliness if u ladies dont change.so help out....
2006-10-19 22:22:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women will not say anything unless you act interested. Sometimes some women are in the same boat that you are. As children we have always been taught that we have to wait for the man to ask us out; be pursued. If you were to set aside being timid, you will get the adrenaline rush of a lifetime if you just go for it. Hope I've been some help.
2006-10-19 22:35:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not all ladies are like this, but I can see why some are. Ladies sometimes want a man to speak up first for a couple of reasons.
1. they want to know what to talk about.
2. they want to see how the guy caries himself and present themselves
3. Some ladies are just stuck up snobbs who think they're better than everyone else.
Just talk. THats all you have to do. Just talk about anything in the world that interests you. Some will take the bait. SOme won't.
2006-10-20 05:41:30 · answer #2 · answered by sam kat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think because you are shy, that would like the ladies to make it easy for you, so that you don't have to do all the work......i will be honest you really need to develop a backbone...being timid in this world gets you no where, especially with regards to women.....i suspect that even if a woman did all the work for you and approached you....you would still face the problem of actually communicating with her because you are so shy...so best advice for you is to come outside of your comfort zone for once.
2006-10-20 06:40:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are necessarily "stiff and proud." Some were just raised in a home with traditional values, where women are respected and cherished. (And they will bend over backwards for their men!).
2006-10-20 05:28:45 · answer #4 · answered by Ariana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not like that,i can talk to u for days but than ull say that i should stop talking.i like shy guys and im deal with them verry well ,so dont say that all ladies are the same as man are not the same either
2006-10-20 06:18:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are getting more and more confident going talking to men now, just relax and have fun, go chat to women, if they aint interested move onto the next.
be confident and smile! :o)
2006-10-20 05:30:12 · answer #6 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some of us ladies are just as shy and timid as you are!!
2006-10-20 06:08:55 · answer #7 · answered by Jess B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women will notice you more when your not looking for a girlfriend.just have a laugh with your friends.you will stand out.and women notice that
2006-10-20 05:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by fantasia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depend on if you are lucky to have true love, lady will not mind to talk with you first
2006-10-20 05:43:03 · answer #9 · answered by Neighbour 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋