what can i tell him that will take his breath away?? he is abit of an insecure person. he is afraid of rejection and at times pushes me away. what can i do for him???
he is abit shy too and so am i.
just tell what i can say to make him feel special and that he will know that i am soooo crazy about him.
thanks.
2006-10-19 22:02:03 · 9 answers · asked by melissa renston 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes its not just enough to tell him how you feel. You have to also show it. Do nice things for him. Take the time out to learn stuff about him, surprise him with things that he likes. Also tell him how crazy you are about him everytime you can. That will help him build his confidence. And neva let hm feel u r taking hiim for granted.
2006-10-19 22:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by tricky D 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pick a date when he is free,take him to a beautiful and isolated place and tell him how much you love,look into his eyes and let him feel all the love you have inside.Lean on him or better still take him into your arms like a baby with all the tenderness and care you have inside,hold him close for as long as you can.Spend the rest of the day doing remarkable and memorable things togerther,give him akiss when he least expect it, a flower view the beauty of nature togerther or anything you feel like but be cautious.
2006-10-20 05:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by peaceful wealth 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself! there is nothing that we can give you that can work like a magic potion! look, i have been there like 10 months or more ago and so i thought i would surprise my guy at his house with his fave cake-a huge sheet of shortcake that i bought- and just cooking for him. i kept on telling him that i love him so much and he said the same.my best guess is that you might try to either do a romantic dinner or a picnic in a park, like his favorite park. get him small gifts that say i care about you-it does not have to be expensive or even bought! you could make him a scrapbook of the two of you, put the time to make it nice and give it to him for your 8 or 9 month anniversery. if he loves a particular restaurant have a date with him, plan the whole date and make reservations in advance for the restaurant and eat there. my bf to show me that he cares about me and to take my breath away surprised me for Halloween-okay, before Halloween-since he knew that i have never been at a haunted house or another time it was the Renaissance Festival! do something that he will not expect, like camping or something simple that says a lot!
2006-10-20 05:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by icycrissy27blue 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him u made him desert or a cake or something.. But tell him he must shower first... When he comes out.. Take the cup cake or whatever and don't feed it to him smear it all over his stomach then lick/eat every bite off of him...
Do something he like and obviously sacrifice something you would rather do.. Like watch football instead of whatever you like.. even better do the cake thing while he watches football
2006-10-20 05:08:35 · answer #4 · answered by Cornelius M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just have a feeling that......ready for this?.....it's not some lack of ability on your part to effectively tell him how much you adore him.
Looking at what you wrote above, it's very evident that your feelings for him are not kept hidden from him.
How can you accept a boyfriend that has chronic low self-esteem to the point where he needs to have constant reassurance from you that you are sooooooo crazy about him?
I don't write this to be snide. I just think that it's important for you to realize that he is responsible for his self-esteem/self-opinion, and not you.
Best Wishes,
ThirstQuencher
2006-10-20 05:10:10 · answer #5 · answered by thirstquencher 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are going to make him feel really strange if you try to say something sappy that will "take his breath away." Instead of trying to get him to open up, do something for him to show that you appreciate who he is and that you are happy in your relationship. Don't force him to open up to you. You will end up turning him off if you are too forward.
2006-10-20 05:49:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like me here...
Just be yourself. And just menchen how good he look in a shirt.. or how you like his hair.. and just little stuff like that will boost his ego. You don't have to go all out to take his breath away.. he likes you and he just wants you to be you! Thats is what is going to take his breath away. Just remind him that he is a very special perosn and that he takes YOUR breathaway.. Belive me.. it really does help!
2006-10-20 06:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by Tigger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why worry about pleasing him, turn this situation around and let him please you being the two of you are both shy. Futhermore if he is insecure what do you need with him. He pushes you away then go away and be at peace within yourself.
2006-10-20 05:08:01 · answer #8 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go easy on him. Find out what he is interested in and start from there.
2006-10-20 05:07:08 · answer #9 · answered by ideaquest 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋