2006-10-19 21:54:46 · 10 answers · asked by avngirl74 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As women we have the idea of the perfect man in our head. Problem is, he doesn't exist. I'm not encouraging you to lower your standards, but instead of judging a guy by the way he looks on the outside (I'm not saying that you do), try to get to know a guy on the inside. If he keeps himself cleaned up and he's not a serial killer, a rapist, aggressive, or a child molester, then he's worth getting to know. Don't force yourself to be with a guy if he just doesn't peak your interest. If you do find a guy that you aren't physically attracted to in the beginning but you like his personality, give it time and the rest of him will become attractive to you. I guarantee it. :)
2006-10-19 23:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Loneliness! That's a big problem indeed and u only hav the solution for it but u do not want to try it out.
Love is such an addiction that even people who are not having it wish to experience and share it with others. U also want to have it and u should accept it.
We often have a feeling that the person with whom I might fall in love should be like this, that and manymore. But that is not Love because Love is beyond conditions. Do not put conditions in it. Might be u like somebody or somebody infact likes u but u are not accepting it but u love him. But again there comes urs condition in between u two and u again get back in to ur loneliness.
So better to remove ur conditions in love. Remember it "If you want to fall in love with somebody, then you should love him exactly as he is, and however he is. If u love somebody but you want some changes in him so that he can be more suitable as a lover for you then it is not love it is just an agreement for love, i.e. a condition and love does not have a place for any agreements or conditions.
Remove ur condition for the one whom u think that u love and u see love will come back to u. That is how it is dealt. Did u get it? Do u find someone around u now? Then what r u doing here just rush at him....His door for urs love is opened there. Good luck and I wish that might ur loneliness ends here.
2006-10-20 05:40:54 · answer #2 · answered by Raj.. Jaane tu ya Jaane Na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking just for a guy.. If your initial intention is " a guy" you won't find one at all or worth while.." Just get outta the house and talk to people. Be social not extremely shy... Except conversations. If you meet a hot tie... Feed his ego and ask many questions about him
2006-10-20 04:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by Cornelius M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
l'm a single good man at least l try to be good you can find me here.
2006-10-20 05:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by catsclaw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comeon avngirl,dont be lonely.do what many of my friends did.honestly they found good men on chat-who themselves were looking for a wife.its just a matter of time.good luck.
2006-10-20 04:59:34 · answer #5 · answered by IKNOWNO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try me.. I am a good man but underappreciated
2006-10-20 05:06:21 · answer #6 · answered by cockednlocked38 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pitty on you.i dont know wha t to say,maybe you're too picky that is why very hard to get boyfriend.
2006-10-20 04:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by sher_2005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey..cheer up..i don't have guy to...
here... i have this thing that my mom gave me...it's a chart,
in the chart you right the type of guy you like then,look for a guy to fullfill them, then follow the guy, if that guy fullfilled everything that is in your chart then, you have a dream guy...go for her girl!!!
2006-10-20 05:20:40 · answer #8 · answered by Eloisefhink16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be patient and the right one will come along and you will bith know it!!!!!!!!
2006-10-20 05:01:21 · answer #9 · answered by lilsoutherngrl8422 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DOD not look he will come to you
2006-10-20 05:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by janice j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋