These days people tend to be in-love but they fall out within the shortest period of time and trial,I've been involved with about 3 guys in mylife at different stages and just when i feel the beauty and joy of loving and being loved something happens,its either i get a feeling that his cheating on me which always becomes a reality,or he tends to be uncaring/immature.Presently i defied the ethics of a corporate environ by falling or should i say getting sentimental with my boss,many times he treats me in a disrespectful manner,i think i've made the biggest mistake so far tho i have feelings for him am beginning to nurture the idea of letting go besides he is arrogant.I believe love is a two way thing not one sided,if you love someone really ,you would never do anything to hurt the person and if you do you'll be willing to put a smile on the person's face a.s.a.p. but things don't work that way anymore am thinking maybe i've not found the right person otherwise am giving up.
2006-10-19 21:52:38 · 5 answers · asked by peaceful wealth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dear Peaceful Wealth,
I can tell you are intelligent, well educated, and successful. At the same time, you are kind, loving and nurturing. More educated and more successful we are, it’s harder to understand why we cannot plan and set the course of our relationship. We do so much for guys, but then they have their own wondering mind.
A real question here is: does he love you?
I know you love him very much. Don’t fool yourself by telling yourself, “I know he loves me.” Did he tell you he loves you? Does he give you romantic gifts? Romantic dinners? Does he initiate phone calls? Does he ask you out? He has to show his love, or he doesn’t love you.
If you determine he truly loves you but treats you poorly, there is a decision to make: stay or leave. Christmas is around the corner, but remember: Spending this holiday season alone is better than spending it with a wrong person, or worse, waiting for a guy who never shows up.
I can feel so much of your pain. Good luck!
2006-10-19 23:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by hulagirl717 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear, happy to answer ur question.
absolutely, love is a thing refer to two sides, if u love someone just give ur love and receive his love-but sometimes things happened another way, he doesnot want to or not able to give what u want(love), then it's the time to say goodbye, u know there 's saying in my country: one person is half apple, ur lover is another half, if he is not the right one, even if u two feel happy or looks good, but u will break up in a day-far or near, so if u r not happy with the guy u r seeing, just let him go. and u know, sometimes u dont need tend to go after love, when it is time, ur love will come to find u. dont be impatient. waiting is also a important part of love, and maybe for u, that' s a key part. take care and good luck to u.
2006-10-20 05:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by ljjump 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and true to the both of ya's. Honesty and communication is the key to everything!!
2006-10-20 04:54:35 · answer #3 · answered by lilsoutherngrl8422 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know how he treats you and you know it's not love so stop doing it!!
2006-10-20 05:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by IQ lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
patience... you need lots of patience dear...
2006-10-20 04:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by mummyBlur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋