but my dad is not accepting our relationship. I tryied so many time but i didnt get succusses in that. I want to marry him but i want that my dad should accept him frist. Tell me what to do?
2006-10-19 18:34:14 · 13 answers · asked by rembo p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Sometimes it easier to make the Break when parents are totally Unwilling to accept our choice in partner!
Seeking acceptance can be Emotionally draining and therefore detract from the Core Relationship you are trying to Build!
If you've tried your best-Then that's ALL you can do!
Accept his Unwillingness to Accept and Move on!
Life's just too Short!!
2006-10-19 18:37:30 · answer #1 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off- by the verbiage used. You must be very young and have not completed high school, much less college. SO I have to agree with Dad.
Get an education, boys come and go. Invest in yourself first.
Once you have a few years of maturity under your belt, a good education, great job, then you can make the best choices possible for your future and that of your potential family. If this young man is still around then he is a good investment.
Men are like money- you spend/buy and invest wisely- cause once you have spent it all- your are worthless. Sad but true.
2006-10-20 01:49:19 · answer #2 · answered by Denise W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, your parents want what is best for you and perhaps your father is seeing negative things in your man that you aren't seeing yet yourself. Even if that's not true and your dad is just being difficult, you can't make him accept your man in your life. If you feel strongly about marrying him, do so. Tell you dad that you wish to have his blessing but if not, you will still marry him because you're happy being with him. With time and mutual effort between you and your man towards your relationship, hopefully your dad will come to see your happiness and like him for being so good to you.
2006-10-20 01:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you haven't tried to do this yet... maybe try to tell you dad the guy's good features mentally and fysically. if you can, try to find the fault your dad sees in him and then try to correct that. maybe ask your dad why he doesn't approve. just randomly say..."Dad, do you want the best for me." if he says yes, then you say"well, i think ----- (name of the guy you want to marry) is the man for me. If you don't approve of it, i would like a detailed explanation of why. if it is not a good enogh explanation, then i'll keep dating him until you understand that i think he is the man for me." then go somewhere for about an hour to give you dad time to process that information you just gave him. Remember to have your keys with you when you talk to your dad so all you have to do is walk outside and drive away.
Good luck!!!
2006-10-20 01:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by live_life_nice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same situation and engaged to my man. My dad just feels that he is loosing his little girl. Never wanted me to grow up but it happens. If this guy is really the right one for you go for it. If your parents do not like him cause they think he is wrong for you try to see why. They may just be protecting you cause that is what happened in my previous relationship. Thank goodness that one did not work out. I don't know what else to say except BE SURE HE IS THE RIGHT ONE FOR YOU!!!!!!!
2006-10-20 01:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by CGS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have elaborate your description of question .if you are at quite older like 25's, earning , educated & always independant to take decisions as well as face the conciquencey of them on your own then you might go with the relAtion ship , But other wise i would suggest you to step back & after a mean while start a new life
2006-10-20 03:17:54 · answer #6 · answered by dilu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Parents are those who nourish us from childhood.We can't easily refuse them.Right..............? Just request him that how could you marry him without his permission.Speak out your difficulties towards him.Convince him by saying that how could you can think another person in place of him.Hope this will help you.................!
2006-10-24 01:22:25 · answer #7 · answered by hots! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a marriage against the will of your parent or parents can be really nasty.. if i were u. and if i really loved my gf even if my parents disagreed i would still marry her.. i mean just because your parents don't like your bf don;t mean its wrong.. follow your heart :D
2006-10-20 01:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You go ahead you marry him, it's you who wants to be happy and it's your life.
2006-10-23 10:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by Krishna 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to convince ur mom 1st ..she might find a solution for ur problem
2006-10-20 12:36:36 · answer #10 · answered by amithaa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋