Really like him. Don't know if I can trust him. I confused. Someone help me.
2006-10-19 18:30:39 · 6 answers · asked by curiouslover 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
irst find out that do u really love him... I can help u. just ask it to urself.....these questions.
What is love? When we claim that it's love that we have for someone,are we correct? Something to ponder upon.....
Are your palms sweaty, is your heart racing and is your voice caughtwithin your chest?
It isn't love, it's like.
You can't keep your eyes or hands off of them, am I right?
It isn't love, it's lust.
Are you proud, and eager to show them off?
It isn't love, it's luck.
Do you want them because you know they're there?
It isn't love, it's loneliness.
Are you there because it's what everyone wants?
It isn't love, it's loyalty.
Are you there because they kissed you, or held your hand?
It isn't love, it's low confidence.
Do you stay for their confessions of love, because you don't want to hurt them?
It isn't love, it's pity.
Do you belong to them because their sight makes your heart skip a beat?
It isn't love, it's infatuation.
Do you pardon their faults because you care about them?
It isn't love, it's friendship
Do you tell them every day they are the only one you think of?
It isn't love, it's a lie.
Are you willing to give all of your favourite things for their sake?
It isn't love, it's charity.
Does your heart ache and break when they're sad?
Then it's love.
Do you cry for their pain, even when they're strong?
Then it's love.
Do their eyes see your true heart, and touch your soul so deeply it hurts?
Then it's love.
Do you stay because a blinding, incomprehensible mix of pain and relation pulls you close and holds you there?
Then it's love.
Do you accept their faults because they're a part of who they are?
Then it's love.
Are you attracted to others, but stay with them faithfully without regret?
Then it's love.
Would you allow them to leave you , not because they want to but because they have to?
Then its love.
Would you give them your heart, your life, your death?
Then it's love.
Now, if love is painful, and tortures us so, why do we love?
Why is it all we search for in life?
This pain, this agony?
Why is it all we long for?
This torture, this powerful death of self? Why?
The answer is so simple cause it's...LOVE. It is such an addiction that even people who are not having it wish to experience and share it with others.
In todays era most of the guys have a habit of changing girlfriends. Don't u think so?
Since u know him from 8 years and u really like him then there is something in ur heart lying there for him but u did not ever wanted to say it out. Now when he admits that he loves u then u just dive i ur past and search what is there in urs heart for him just a friend or something more than him. If he is the one you really love then just accept it.
U might be thinking that since he left his first gf, then he might once leave u also if he finds another. that none of ur business. Just leave that to him and to the future. If U love him then accept it for if u are not then u r hurting urself.
Suppose that ur love story ends after a day then that is enough for u to spend ur remaining part of ur life because the sweet memories of love does not lasts, it remains forever. Why to think of the future, might be tomorrow will not come. Think of today and u will find that he is there waiting for ur response. Ask ur heart if it says that u love him then go and accept him. That is enough.
2006-10-19 23:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by Raj.. Jaane tu ya Jaane Na 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he has a girlfriend and that you fell uncomfortable when he says things like that to you. Don't get in the middle of his relationship. If he wants you he needs to leave her first. Trusting him-cant help you there cause I do not know him. Just be careful.
2006-10-19 18:35:31 · answer #2 · answered by CGS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your gut is telling you to be cautious, you should listen to your gut. You don't have to understand why right now. Your intuition often reasons things out long before your conscious mind does.
2006-10-19 18:35:12 · answer #3 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore e "Dumas" "frank to begin with" and about your problem, if you know the guy for eight years and you are not sure you can trust him, than dont rush in to anything... plus he has a girl--- dont sweat it.....
2006-10-19 18:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by tjdeya24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
weigh the good against the bad, what are your reasons for not trusting him?if they're not as strong as your reasons for loving him then you should go for it...
2006-10-19 18:40:16 · answer #5 · answered by sadgreeneyes3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sux to be you!!!
2006-10-19 18:33:03 · answer #6 · answered by Goya 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋