ok i have a b/f i have been dating for a week and i like him but there is no cimistry there and i today i ran into an old friend that i used to think is so unatractive and he is ******* hot as hell now...and man i am having thoughts of dumping my b/f and going out with this other persn but not sure if i am having thoughts shouldn't i go through with it/???? please help asap
2006-10-19 18:27:23 · 14 answers · asked by hotchick_85_18 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you have no chemistry with your bf end it now b/c he falls deeper for you. i also suggest that you leave the old friend alone b/c it seems that you are only interested in his looks, not his personality. while his looks have improved i bet his personality has not. find a new guy.
2006-10-19 18:29:59 · answer #1 · answered by ca belle 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well first ask yourself why you broke it off with the old b/f in the first place. Then SLOW DOWN. Don't go running from one b/f to the next right away. You still have a commitment to your current b/f, gently break it off with him if you feel it's over, he may feel the same way. Then wait at least a week before you make yourself available to your old b/f, what's the rush? Let him pursue you, I'm sure you know where to go where he'll be, just be around him and have fun, the rest will take care of itself. Good Luck!.
2006-10-20 01:35:33 · answer #2 · answered by DB 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So your've been dating someone for a week, you're not committed to him. There's no reason why you cant date this other hot stud. And just because he's hot, doesnt mean you're gonna hit it off.
The key word here is DATING.....which means going out with someone, to get to know them. Not to necessarily make a life commitment.
2006-10-20 01:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying that you have a committment with a guy that you have only dated for a week? if thats the case then you need some serious help, go out with whom ever you like, wether you go out with 1 guy or 100 guys, go out and have fun. You are way to young to be in a committed relationship.
Good luck!
2006-10-20 01:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Harley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you genualy do not like they guy that you are seeing and dont see it heading anywhere in the future, then by all means dump him. Just dont do it to be with your friend, make sure if your going to end the relationship that you are doing it for the right reasons.
2006-10-20 01:30:37 · answer #5 · answered by Chris 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why not date the both? It will give you a chance to get to know them better and see what feelings might grow. If you become serious with one, it will be time to break it off with the other.
2006-10-20 01:49:06 · answer #6 · answered by schweetums 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Monkey Bars....How about letting go of the first one before you're looking for a new one! I think you should break up with you boyfriend, because he deserves someone who actually cares about him...then you can do what ever you like....until the next boy comes along.
2006-10-20 01:31:11 · answer #7 · answered by Miss Suki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, what are you doing with a guy with whom you have no chemistry? I don't think you can cultivate chemistry so the sooner you let go of your bf, for your sake and his, the better off both of you will be.
2006-10-20 01:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by mpicky2 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have only been dating this guy for a week. No real history, no chemistry ----- why are you with him then? Go where your heart goes!
Good luck!
2006-10-20 01:34:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Who do you have the most common ground with? .... which one do you feel more comfortable with? ..... which one makes you not wanna knaw / chew your arm off in the morning to keep from wakiing him up?
Answer those and you'll know ..... just be gentle with them!
Men are fragile emotional creatures .... right.
2006-10-20 01:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by John 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋