I'm really interested in being with a woman. My boyfriend says its o.k. as long as he can join in. I don't want a threesome. Should I just forget about it?
2006-10-19 18:22:21 · 15 answers · asked by shellese2 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do your thing!!!
your boyfriend has nothing to do with your fantasies and your experimentation. let him fantasize about it!!! dont let him ruin your fantasy!!!
On the other hand, most men dont have the opportunity (girlfriend) who is down for that. So you might be giving him an opportunity/gift of a lifetime.
2006-10-19 18:30:37 · answer #1 · answered by Goya 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I agree with Paul. Not only is it cheating but this whole thing is nothing but pure self-indulgence. Don't you put ANY restraints on your behavior? Is EVERYTHING alright in your eyes? Is there anything that you would not seriously consider doing if the inclination hit you? Do you have ANY understanding of what the concept of "morality" is about and why cultures have had it for thousands of years. And why societies and cultures disintegrate when people stop having them?
What is wrong with you people? Why is everyone encouraging this behavior as if it were perfectly acceptable and everyone was doing it? Even if everyone WERE doing it, it would still be wrong! Oh, but that's right, you people have been brainwashed into believing that there is no such thing as right and wrong anymore. Well, in that case, why not just jump into bed with a pig. Who cares? I can't see that it's any different then having sex with a girl while your boyfriend watches so--why not?
2006-10-19 18:43:21 · answer #2 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in a comitted relationship than you are cheating, by wanting to be with another woman. if he joins in, then it is a something you guys can share together. i personally would suggest not doing it. the thought of my husband being intimate with another girl makes my stomach turn. what if he really likes it and starts thinking he can do it all the time. or what if he does it with her sometime when you are not around. i guess it all depends on how much love and trust the two of you have for each other. good luck on your decision
2006-10-19 18:38:22 · answer #3 · answered by zoe m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the whole thing or break up with him. You would be cheating if you did it w/ out him and if you do it with him you could be in for a real surprise afterwards It can break a relationship.
2006-10-19 18:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by 7yrs2go 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! Thats a tough question! Once you find the perfect woman then you and and her and your guy should sit down and discuss this. If you really don't want a threeway tell him you just want to try it and see what he says.
2006-10-19 18:26:25 · answer #5 · answered by Katelinn ♥ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHATS WRONG WITH YOU??? Forget that you even considered being with another women, and change boyfriends until you find one who doesnt want to watch you cheat on him in front of his eyes and also cheat on you in front of your eyes. Sexual immorality will kill you.
2006-10-19 18:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
male or female, any sexual contact outside a monogamous relationship is cheating.
if you feel that strongly about wanting to be w/a woman..perhaps it's time for a break w/ the boyfriend.
2006-10-19 18:25:37 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why did you tell him??
you should enjoy your life.
trying something new isn't about him so just let the whole thing calm down and then do what you want to do.
really, it's not like you're going to get pregnant so where's his problem??
2006-10-19 18:28:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't tell him silly. If you like her better then tell him as you are waving goodbye, if you don't like it then forget it ever happened. NEVER have a 3some with somebody you love unless you want to lose them.
2006-10-19 18:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by L.J. 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep. Forget it.
2006-10-19 18:24:04 · answer #10 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋