MY DAS BROTHER JUST DIED A COUPLE OF DAYSAGO AND NOW MY DADIS TELLING ME ANDMY SISTERS THAT THIS IS THELAST TIME THAT UR EVER GONNA SEE ME AND IM SCARED LAST NIGHT HE DIDNT COME HOME UNTIL 3 AM AND I WAS SO SCARED! AND I FEEL THAT ITS ESPECIALLY HARD FOR ME CUZ IM THE OLDEST OUT OF THREE GIRLS AND I FEEL THAT I HAVE TOPROTECT MY SISTERS INCASE OF ANYTHING!! IM JUST SO CONFUSED MY GARDESSRE EVEN STARTING TO DROPCUZ OF THIS!! PLEASE I REALY REALLY NEED SOMEON TO TALK TO!!! I CANTTALKTO MY MOM OR FRIENDS CUZ I JUST DONT FEEL COMFORTABLE!! SO IF THEIR IS A PERSON I MEAN JUST AT LEAST ONE PERSON WHO I CAN ATLK TO ABOUT THIS I WOULD APPRECIATE IT FROM THE BOTTOM OF MY HEART JUST RESPECTIVELY GIVE ME UR EMAIL ANDI WILL LOVE AND TOTALLY APPRECIATE TALKING TO YOU!!! THANK YOU FOR EVERYON WHO RESPONDED. YOU HAVE NO IDEA HOW MUCH THIS MEANS TO ME.
2006-10-19 18:19:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
This is a tough situation to be in. Your dad may be reacting to his deep emotions. It's hard to lose a sibling. If, however, you honestly think he's going to do something to hurt himself then talk to him and ask him. He may need help to get through this difficult time. His disappearing for a few hours may also be part of this. If it is really scaring/bothering you, then when you talk to him let him know how his actions are affecting you using "I" statements (When you do "x" I feel "y"). As for protecting your sisters, you may find that they don't need or want your protection, especially if they are adult. I understand wanting to protect the siblings, but I have found they want the honest truth about what's going on, since many try to protect them. You may also find when talking to them about what's going on will help you gain different perspectives.
2006-10-19 18:31:43 · answer #1 · answered by LG 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must be suffering from shock or something. Can you talk to him and tell him that he is scaring you? Is there a relative you can talk to? What about a counselor at school? Also, you need to call the police and report him as a missing person if he leaves. They will tell you what to do and will help you if you are all minors living alone. Child Protective Services can also help you. This is one of the worst things I have ever heard of. I hope he comes to his senses soon.
2006-10-20 01:24:53 · answer #2 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to someone you can trust, a teacher, your best-friends parents, or call a help line. That's a very serious threat and you and your sisters need to tell someone about it. I hope everything works out ok with you. You're dad should not say something like that to his daughters.
2006-10-20 06:57:05 · answer #3 · answered by Duper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which Country are you in??? There are free helplines with experienced people you can give you the best advice. Have a look in the directory. Good Luck, I feel for you.
2006-10-20 01:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Suki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
karenthreerob@yahoo.com here is my email write to me and tell me a little more about your situtation. And i will do my best to help you. Thats why i try to give the best answer of helping people on the yahoo answer. cause ususally people cant' talk to their friend and family and it takes an outsider to help. but there is alot of rude people on this sites . I have seen their answer and they can be really mean.
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2006-10-20 02:42:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death is very scary, your DAD is probably very scared because this was his own BROTHER someone his own age and this makes him think about his own death, it is just something people do automatically when someone they love dies. You need to talk to your DAD tell him you love him and that he is scaring you about the things he says, that you NEED him. If you want to talk you can PRebollar@aol.com. Peggy
2006-10-20 01:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by whattheheck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first. You guys need to call and report this to the police because he is considered a critical missing. Who knows what your dad is up to and they will look for him.
2006-10-20 01:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pray to Jesus to help ur family! i would like to call but im so far away its kinda hard to make phone calls here in my area... i hope things will work out fine with ur dad.
2006-10-20 03:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by kazzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww I'm sorry that happend :( here it's disneymythology@aol.com
2006-10-20 01:24:29 · answer #9 · answered by Via 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to talk to your mom or police, if you love your family and you don't want your dad to something he shouldn't, you HAVE to let someone know!!!
2006-10-20 01:22:47 · answer #10 · answered by silverchick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋