i've been going out with this guy for almost a month(on monday )and i feel he only wants me for well,what i've got (goodies),and i just don't feel he loves me,cares for me,and will always b there for me,and commitied,and i don't know if i should stay or work it out,i really wanna work it out,but i don't wanna waste my time
i don't think i love him anymore,i am dedacated and faithful
but there is this other guy,he is my guy friend,and i'm always around him,he is always there for me,and he was going out with 1 of my homegirls,but she really didn't care for him,and i was sooooo pissed when she left him broken hearted,he was so great to her,he REALLY loved her,cared for her,was compassionate,was by her side for everything.............so he was everything i wanted my boyfriend to b like
i don't know if i should break up with my current boyfriend and go with my guyfriend or stay with my current boyfriend and talk it out with him
SO WITH ALL THE EXSPERANCE U HAVE PLEASEPLEASE HELP
2006-10-19 18:19:10 · 9 answers · asked by Nana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for the guyfriend, he sounds more reliable.
2006-10-19 18:22:00 · answer #1 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a commitment based on getting the sex thing is not ideal one. if the guy really love, he will respect and will be the opposite of what u have just said..
the guy friend may not know that u have feelings for him and u may not know as well that he did have a feelings for u but are afraid to break ur friendship.
the thing is, u could just tell him ur real feelings and if he is really a nice friend, then he won't reject u or be that sarcastic to ur being honest..he will respect u..who knows maybe u too are really great for each other..
its not too late... "Honesty is still the best policy"
2006-10-19 20:41:50 · answer #2 · answered by kazzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk it out with your current boyfriend, tha tway you will atleast tried, if you just jump ship to the new guy, you will never know for sure about the issues you have with your current man. If you two were meant to be together, then you will be able to communicate and see what the real deal is, good luck
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2006-10-19 18:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by slaytanicmobilization 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 11:55:08 · answer #4 · answered by erlebach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have been going out with him for almost a month .. just tell him it's not working out for you and you don't want to be his girlfriend. (dump him)
you already feel the relationship isn't what you were hoping it would be so why not get out now?
2006-10-19 18:33:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your b/f sounds like he doesn't care and your guy friend does so what do think when you look at that way?
2006-10-19 18:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by trainer4u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date them both and satisfy all your needs, but be discrete. You may have to lie.
2006-10-19 18:36:11 · answer #7 · answered by Puppy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like you have made your decision and would like us to confirm it :)
if you dont love him and he does not seem to care for you them leave him --- but tell him why --- he may change for his next lady
2006-10-19 18:24:18 · answer #8 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go commit bestiality.
sleep with a niger
2006-10-19 18:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by frank 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋