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Like 20 jobs, three hasty marriages, 26 pets, and God knows how many times I have moved? I am in my first attempt at an honest relationship, and it is very good. We have actually dated for a year, and are not living together (amazing for a quick-draw like me). So why do I want to run? This is so different and very frightening. I was trying to peg my BF as commitment phobic, but he says that I am the one who has that problem......what do you guys think? I just did a fourth step on all my jobs and pets (AA).

2006-10-19 18:18:28 · 9 answers · asked by NorthernCA/FL 2 in Health Mental Health

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who knows, seems we have to label everything these days. Perhaps it's called living in the 21st century, when seems the whole world is in some sort of chaos. In all honesty sounds like bi-polar disorder, formerly known as manic depressive. Treatment available and usually effective, providing you follow the tools given to you by your therapist and psychiatrist. Also may require a medication regimen. Good luck with this relationship.

2006-10-19 18:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by Strawberry Pony 5 · 1 0

Chill. Take a breather and relax. Life isn't a race to see you can do the most to make their life chaotic.

2006-10-20 01:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by bRiLa 4 · 1 0

It sounds to me like you have Borderline Personality Disorder. Look it up and see what you think.

2006-10-20 01:20:54 · answer #3 · answered by L.J. 4 · 1 0

Sounds like a fear of commitment to me!

2006-10-20 01:31:10 · answer #4 · answered by someoneoutthere 5 · 0 0

i believe that you have a problem with trust and honesty. you may just not know what you are looking for in life

2006-10-20 01:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Brian D 1 · 0 0

see a doctor, its a mental , emotional problem. seek help or no relationship will ever work.

2006-10-20 01:21:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

It means you need to down-size before you crash and burn from overload.

2006-10-20 01:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by NyteWing 5 · 0 0

obsessive ~compulsive ?

2006-10-20 01:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0 0

insecure?

2006-10-20 01:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by leoerickson 1 · 0 0

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