This is for all the girls out their. What do you think about sex?? Is it something that is very special and should be saved for the love of your life or is it just another way of showing you care, like kissing or hugging? If your a virgin, why did you choose to go that way. If your not, would you take it all back and become a virgin again if you could?? Just curious to know how women really feel.
2006-10-19 17:37:29 · 11 answers · asked by Mr. Long 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all a person can have numerous "loves of their lives" Most people have more than one! (Although if they are married they will probably tell you their wife/husband is the "only one" in order to not hurt the other persons feelings) So back to your question Yes I do believe you should save sex for that special person you know it is right with! And trust me on this, you will know when it is right. Don't give it away if you "think" it is right. WAIT TILL YOU KNOW! FOR SURE! NO DOUBTS! And No sex is not a sign of affection, sex is how we make babies, that is what it is there for and you should not abuse this. It's also very pleasurable.....but that doesnt change the fact that is for making babies! So If you are Unsure if that man would make a good father, then do not have sex with him! Because accidents happen and you don't want to make one that will ruin numerous lives, not just your own. Also I am not a virgin and no I would not change this. I am a strong Independent young women who lost my virginity when I was ready to the right man and in the right way. And I urge all you other young women to do the same. NO I AM NOT MARRIED and NO I AN NOT DATING HIM ANYMORE. But we had a wonderful loving caring relationship and I couldn't have chosen a better partner for my first time, or a better man to be my first love. As I said before you will have numerous "loves of you lives". You will learn this as you get older. And just as some words of wisdom do not lose it to a guy just because you "like him, or you think you love him" or even worse because he pressures you into it! This will only cause you remorse in the end and will drag down yourself esteem, Just wait till the time is right, and only you will know when that time comes.
2006-10-19 17:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by cuteness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Abstinence.
I'm still a virgin because I decided that I only wanted to have sex with somebody that I loved and I would want to be with for the rest of my life. So not until I am married or atleast have been engaged and am 100% sure the wedding is going to happen.
I also feel that in choosing to have sex even if I was to use some form of birth control there could always be a chance that I could get pregnant because nothing is 100% sure.
So I decided not to have sex until:
1. I know I am ready for it.
2. I love the guy and we are married.
3. I know that I am ready to have a child should I get pregnant.
2006-10-20 00:46:45 · answer #2 · answered by ѕомєопєѕ▪ ваву ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. Sex is bad. In the bible it says that you shouldn't do it until marrage and all that. We know the rules. But in this day and age, it hardly ever goes that way. If you really care about someone, you prove it, right? Wrong. Honey. Its what ever you feel. If you feel and strongly believe that you're ready to take that step than go for it, but you might be like me. I am a virgin as of this point. I thought that I could do it. But when it got there its just like you're worried about if you'll get caught, if it's going to hurt too bad, if you'll actually like it, and all that stuff. But the thing is I've done EVERYTHING but have sex. Its fun to mess around, but with sex you will tie yourself with that person for the rest of your life. Some people do regret it. Others are extremely glad that the lost it. But it really depends on your religion, your status on being ready or not, and if you really want to always think back and be like WOW I lost my virginity to this guy! Or I can't believe I gave it up to that dick. Its your choice. No one elses.
2006-10-20 00:47:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sissy Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman, I say that you should experience sex with a person that you care about and love, no need to wait till you get married..the only reason i say this is because you want it to be a good experience for both of you. A lot of girls out there just do it so that the guy will like them or because they are pressured...not the right reasons and therefore feel bad afterwards and then they have to suffer the consequences of shame and reject. You have to also make sure you have safe sex.
2006-10-20 00:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not a virgin but if i could take it back.. i think i would have done it a little differently.. like ya know with that particular person.. bc the person that took my virginity wasnt THAT special to me or at least not as special as my current boyfriend of almost 2 years.. if i could take it back i would lose it to my b/f now.. bc its more of a love with us not so much with my 1st
2006-10-20 00:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by just me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have four kids and although i dont regret them i will admit sometimes i wonder what it would be like to be a virgin again and wait till i get married to have sex where it actually meant something special.
2006-10-20 00:41:47 · answer #6 · answered by thinkofmealwayslver 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sex is the most profound manifestation of love. In theology books, sex is the culmination of your marriage. Don't waste it on someone who you will regret later on. But it is important that the person you will decide to marry is sexually compatible with you. Good luck.
2006-10-20 00:41:23 · answer #7 · answered by thomas 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Abstinence, I think you should wait until your married, but it is a personal choice.
2006-10-20 01:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm abstinence
2006-10-20 00:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by Love Exists? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SEX - of course !!!! How else am I going to spread STDs around?
2006-10-20 00:42:45 · answer #10 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋