hey .... i have BPD and SAD and ive been going out with a girl for about 8 months and i really like her but i dont know if im in love with her, i know she's in love with me but with these ****** disorders its crazy... anybody can tell how to tell if ones in love... please help.. :-(
2006-10-19 17:16:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bipolar + seasonal affective disorder from winter months? hmmm. does she make you happy? is she all you think about when you wake up in the morning and before you sleep at night? you probably are in love but in denial. :) if your disorders are problematic, remember that you have the brain power to fight and eliminate them. :) good luck. make love not war.
2006-10-19 17:24:03 · answer #1 · answered by thomas 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Come on....show that you are gentle guy, Dude...If you love somebody just say the thruth..Okay, not every persons can show that feeling but, how can you know that she love you if you never say your feeling too...If she said that she never fall in love too you, you just forget her and find the other girl more than her. If you can do that, it's okay everything need process, just believe that will be another girl better than her...If you've said that you love her that have shown that you are a gentle boy...
Happy choosing and hopefully I can help you...
Dee
2006-10-19 17:38:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well usually if you're in love, you just know it. You're happier with them than without them, you feel exhilarated. But when you're having BPD you won't really know this.
I would say you have a very good chance of having a very good love with this girl. Let it grow. You don't have to feel being in love with someone to know its real. One day you will realize you're a better man with her.
2006-10-19 17:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by Liz^24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, ther's a difference between liking n loving, i'm in that situation too. don't know wht 2 do, but i think that when the time comes u'll know, be patient, it won't be in vain. try 2 get closer 2 that girl, n ask yourself the question: do u want 2 luv her? do u want 2 be only friends? do u feel nice with her?
2006-10-19 17:29:19 · answer #4 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you want to die.
2006-10-19 17:18:23 · answer #5 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋