We think she is lying about it to try and get him back. Is there a way we can "secretly" test her to see if she is lying?
2006-10-19 17:15:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
No one seems to have answered your question directly. So I'll take a stab at it and maybe I'll help you. Maybe not..but at least I'm trying to answer the question of "is there a way you can secretly test her"
You'll be happy to know there is! Yes there is! It's unbelievable I know and people are thinking...this dude is crazy...and maybe I am but at least I have the answer.
All you have to do is find a way to get her to drink lots of water or diet soda...because you know those kind of things are diuretics and make people have to pee a little more often than normal.
Anyway...then find a way to trick her into using a toilet that you've "secretly" covered in SaranWrap...she'll rush into pee and not paying attention she'll pee all over herself and the SaranWrap. When she comes out screaming and complaining either you or a friend rush in with a pregnancy test and swipe it across the mess that she no doubt left. That's nasty sounding but unless you can figure out how to get a pregnancy test stick thing under her or a urine sample that's probably your best bet.
You could find a mutual friend and get them to find out whether or not she's lying. You could be the nice new girlfriend that wants to help her out and be there as a supportive "Step mom" of sorts and she'll either prove she's pregnant or make up a story about what happened to her pregnancy.
You could wait and see how your boyfriend treats this girl, especially if she is pregnant, and then you know how he'll treat you if you end up in the same situation. If he's tucking tail, running, and denying it's his then he probably isn't going to claim responsibility if you get pregnant either.
A word of advice here kiddo....if you do have sex...practice safe sex because it's obvious he doesn't and if he doesn't he might have caught something along with getting someone pregnant.
I hope everything works out for you....be mature about it and try to make the right decision.
Good luck!
2006-10-19 18:25:23 · answer #1 · answered by Bonecrusher 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend to go there with a test and make her take it! If she doesn't then she is a liar!! When I first got with my hubby some girl tried the same thing with him, i believe its a last effort to get back with him, but just because some one may be pregnant does not mean they will get back together I would remind her of this aswell.
2006-10-20 08:26:11 · answer #2 · answered by lisamarie7901 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, unfortunately there is no way to secretly test her. Your boyfriend need to have her test for him or she needs to leave him alone. That is classic to say she's pregnant that *****. If she is pregnant that is not a reason for him to go back. They shouldn't want to raise a baby in an unhappy environment. He needs to get her to confess ask her parents.
2006-10-20 00:23:41 · answer #3 · answered by mimi lc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she was telling the truth she would have no problem proving that the baby is your boyfriend-- if she goes for support naming him as the father he can get a test done to prove it is indeed his--- this all might take a lawyer but it would be worth it so he doesn't have to pay support for 18 years or even longer if the child goes to college but if she is lying he can counter sue her for pain and suffering and also to get back the money spent on lawyers , courts, tests
2006-10-21 10:21:42 · answer #4 · answered by Ladder Captain-29 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, confirm that she really is pregnant. You could buy her those over-the-counter pregnancy kits. If she doesn't consent, there's something fishy going on.
You just need her urine for any pregnancy test. If she doesn't give any, you could go down and dirty by try scooping urine or her used undies.
If she is indeed pregnant, that's the time she should get a DNA test for paternity.
2006-10-20 00:27:33 · answer #5 · answered by Mau.Dreizehn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contact your local child-support agency. They can give you all sorts of information about how you can establish paternity and child support. They can't do anything about custody. It might be a good idea to talk to them anyway, in case this is for real and she does end up suing for paternity and child support. Knowledge is power.
Sue for custody. This will entail getting an attorney.
If she's telling the truth, she should start to show at about five months' gestation, I think(?).
2006-10-20 00:25:41 · answer #6 · answered by amy02 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, most pregnant women know exactly how far along they are (I knew to the day) and when they are due. Ask, and do the math to see if it is even possible that the baby could be your boyfriends. Then, dump the guy for having unprotected sex. He's obviously not someone you want to be having sex with.
2006-10-20 01:03:06 · answer #7 · answered by Stacy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no tell her to go to your local womans clinic they usually test for free tell her you will take her. if she is then they will give her a paper saying so if shes not then she will come out empty handed and point proven. if its true she wont have anything to hide. ive met a few of these in my past and once i was as i now have a 3 yr old whos father didnt believe me untill he was there to cut the umbilical cord lol. even though i didnt want him back and only called when i had updates on the pregnancy. as im married to his best friend and now expecting our second daughter. good luck hun.
2006-10-20 00:59:08 · answer #8 · answered by evilella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol i had that happen to me ages ago turned out the day we broke up was the day she got an abortion funni that hey . no real way to test her until she starts to show if she doesnt ur safe if she does well u need to figure out a solution for now dont worry bout it ... thankfully me an my boy are not back together n have been for 2 years.. and now im the one who is pregnant ... females can get quite bit-chy when it comes to guys just dont stress mwah
2006-10-20 01:00:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you can secretly test her just confront her face to face and see " hey you pee in this cup now!" and if she doesnt then she is lying simple simple
2006-10-20 00:24:52 · answer #10 · answered by porcelain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋