I've read about how girls like to do little tests on guys they like. Is this true? If you really did like a guy, would you do something like ignore him completely to see what he will do? Or do you test him some other way?? Do you do it at all?
2006-10-19 17:07:46 · 14 answers · asked by Mr. Long 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason i ask is cause i really like this girl and we got along really well but then all of the sudden she jus stopped talking to me. Her best friend says she still likes me but i dont know i think its bullshit and she should just tell me how she feels. I really like her but im gettin frustrated and feel like im wastin my time. Any ideas on what i should do?!?
2006-10-19 17:17:56 · update #1
ABSOLUTELY NOT!
that is gaming. and in a relationship...*a grownup relationship* one must never gamble unless they are prepared to loose it all!
why test someone like that? i would never want to have someone test me for their own sick enjoyment of watching my reaction and then JUDGING me in a set-up! oh plz! that is so childish.
just let it be what it is! this is why so many ppls relationships fail, setting themselves up for disappointment and disaster.
2006-10-19 17:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From a guys' perspective....depending upon the dude, that would be the baddest choice to take in attempting to bond with a 'GOOD' man. Cause I know for a fact that if you had to test me, I'd lose interest pretty damn quick. Especially busy men, cause we really at times don't have time for little games where we have to work EXTRA hard just to attract a stranger that we don't know that could be a match or a mismatch. It's not a worthy russian roulette.
I know there are women who believe a man has to work for what he wants, and some that believe a man HAS to be the first one to make the move based on tradition and the whole 'maturity' bit, which really is irrelevant (thank god) in this time and age.
But there are the aggressive suitors for such types of women. But you'll find a good majority of good men don't want to work so damn hard just to find love, it's hard enough we lose women to the more aggressive and more attractive by strong personality 'assholes', so why have to go through even MORE trouble just to even go on a date with one? Just my opinion.
2006-10-20 00:23:43 · answer #2 · answered by Dennis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a girl likes him then she either ignores him or gets around him and tries to touch him in some way, mainly the arm.
2006-10-20 00:13:55 · answer #3 · answered by Christina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never "tested" guys, I had a guy test me once. He said we should see other people, I said ok and he got mad. What he wanted, was for me to get upset, cry, etc. To show him that I "cared". Stupid little games never get you anywhere.
2006-10-20 00:13:44 · answer #4 · answered by msuzyq 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. Of course, I am a mature woman. If a man is interested, he would ask me out in a proper manner. If not, it's just flirting. Period.
2006-10-20 00:10:30 · answer #5 · answered by rvogelpohl2001 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing games is for children. If you are an adult, in an adult relationship, live your life in truth. Leave the games for the playground.
2006-10-20 00:10:42 · answer #6 · answered by TXChristDem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do whatever u want to do but those tests ur speaking of only work in movies, u'll only be disapointed if u try them, chivalry is dead just be u.
2006-10-20 00:11:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a teenager game.
remember, if you don't want to know the answer don't ask the question.
2006-10-20 00:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by sdh0407 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEVER PLAY GAMES, IF YOU REALLY WANT TO KNOW
HOW THE PERSON FEEL THEN ASK HIM. PEOPLE THAT
PLAY GAMES IN UP BY THERE SELF. WHY YOU PLAY THESE
GAMES.
2006-10-20 00:11:55 · answer #9 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tests are not games, they are a way to strenghten a relationship or find out truths behind the lies. whats wrong with that, go for it.
2006-10-20 00:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋