okay so i realy realy like this guy and whenever i am on AIM and his sn pops up on my buddy list i dont know what to do. Should I just go talk to him or should I wait for him to talk to me?
2006-10-19 17:00:03 · 10 answers · asked by Claire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
a watched pot never boils.
meaning....if you don't chat him up first...you might be waiting a VERY long time.
what if he is doing the same on HIS end? just waiting on you.
just click his sn and send an IM....make it light and friendly.
"Hey, what are up to?"
if you don't reach out and take what you want...someone else will!
2006-10-19 17:03:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say hi, but wait like a couple minutes before you do, because you might sound desperate if you talk to him right away. But everytime u are on aim dont always be the first to say hello let him talk to u first. it also depends on your kind of relationship with him..are u friends, sorta friends, ect..
2006-10-19 17:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by ♥aNNabaNaNa♥ 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your relationship with him.If you are on good terms , it should be OK to contact him once and ask if he has time to chat, but do not make it long or contact him again, if he does not contact you again. My ex-friend is going to pop up on my buddy's list in a few minutes, he does this nightly, but I will not contact him, because we are not on good terms.I do not know why he does not make himself invisible to me, since he is the one who is angry with me. Your friend see you, just as you see him.
2006-10-19 17:09:13 · answer #3 · answered by RY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't wait!just go talk to him right away! you know, he might be feeling the same thing, he might be waiting for you to talk to him as well cos he might be afraid that you won't reply if he first send you a message. go make the first move. good luck.
2006-10-19 17:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by huey 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
say hi the first 1 or 2 times...let him see the bate be for...you start reeling in the fishing line...
2006-10-19 17:05:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him to get things started. Then be a little more illusive, it will leave him wanting more from you.
2006-10-19 17:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by JoeJOE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just talk to him, but eventually wait for him to talk to you.
2006-10-19 17:01:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, you won't regret it! Maybe something good will spring up from it.
2006-10-19 17:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by bbchicki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him damit if he dosnt like u then fine life goes on
2006-10-19 17:02:32 · answer #9 · answered by Star Wolf 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yep.talk to him first.just dont always be first.GL>
2006-10-19 17:06:13 · answer #10 · answered by bob a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋