i dont know what it is. i have went from a party person to a melo, family person. he thinks im going crazy on him, that i have no reason to flip out. but if that was me going out every night then he would be acting the same way, but i would have no say. am i too controlling?do i need to chill out?
2006-10-19 16:27:51 · 11 answers · asked by CJ 1 in Food & Drink ➔ Beer, Wine & Spirits
He needs to spend SOME time away from the family especially if he has a lot of pressure. but, then again, he needs to spend a lot of time with family! It is all about bonding with the child and wife/gf.
He needs to understand that night time is only time you all REALLY have TOGETHER. YOu need to spend some time together.
Good luck.
2006-10-19 16:36:08 · answer #1 · answered by The Ultimate Nerd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hailee needs to shut up and grow up... She will get her turn someday.
Anyway- I had that problem recently- Doesn't it just make you feel like they don't want to be with us? That they rather be with their friends? Going out "EVERY NIGHT" is bad- Once in a while is okay- guys do need to hang out with their boys sometimes- It really is a guy thing. But only you know if he's cheating. Trust me- They will start to act differently around you. Keep in mind, some guys grow up so freaken slow it's annoying. But keep an open mind. Good luck.
2006-10-19 23:42:52 · answer #2 · answered by roxylee11782 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He needs to realize, he has a family now to think about! Stay home during the week, if he wants to go out let him go out Friday night, and then you and him can go out Saturday night, providing you can get a sitter.Good luck sweetheart, trust me I went through the same exact thing!
2006-10-19 23:38:36 · answer #3 · answered by Marna S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that all depends if you are welcome to join him. Would he like it if you found a babysitter and went with him one night? Would you like going with him and enjoy the company he hangs out with wherever he goes? If the suggestion of you joining him on his outings makes him uncomfortable, there are other things that you need to look at...
Also, think about what you want. Are you happy staying home with your son? Do you like the people your boyfriend spends time with? Would you rather go somewhere with your friends? What would he have to say about that?
Sorry to answer your questions with questions, but these are ones that you have to answer for yourself, so you know what YOU want. Then, you can think about if what your boyfriend wants fits in with your requirements.
2006-10-19 23:44:33 · answer #4 · answered by Evi 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hall no your doing the right thing because if it was you going out like that you would be ever thing in the book and he would be going crazy don't put you guards down because if he go out ever night he's looking and coming home telling you your crazy when he would love to do him because he fill like she has my son she is not going no were so play it cool you know the change in your man girl im going throw it also as you can tell
2006-10-19 23:42:34 · answer #5 · answered by Sable B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a sitter and go out together. sometimes let him watch the kid while u go out with girlfriends. sometimes u watch him and let him go with the boys. And have the family time too. Theres gotta be a balance...
2006-10-19 23:39:58 · answer #6 · answered by KAYE 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are doing the right thing, and you should be upset , going out once in a while is one thing , everynite , girl, what are you thinkin' this man is up to something and it aint just partin', if they try to make you feel bad there trying reverse physc. on you. put your foot down , if he leaves he wasnt your s anyway , sorry but think about it. you know in your heart what is right.
2006-10-19 23:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by sabrina d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you would like to see a happy medium, and maybe - most likely you are just growing up a bit and that is why you want to stay home more.
2006-10-19 23:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by Christina M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well assuming he has weekends off... get up early and get ready. just as your heading out the door say by be back later... have a fun day with your son...
2006-10-20 00:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the jerk, his character was molded a long time age, life is to short to deal with morons
2006-10-20 00:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋