It seems like I go on a lot of first dates and then never hear from the guy again. I'm not ugly or boring, as far as I know. So I'm wondering why would a guy do this? Why would he never contact a girl again if the date went fine? Even a phone call to say hello? Even just getting together again for a movie? I mean, it's not like we hated each other. Do guys expect the girls to call? I don't contact them because I thought we weren't supposed to. I just wanted some advice from guys who might know why this happes. Thanks!
2006-10-19 15:37:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are these "blind dates"? Only about 1%-2% of blind dates lead to a second date. Chances are that if he called you, you'd not think twice about it and just feel some sort of validation about your atttractiveness or your personality. You just feel like he has made a bad judgement against you and that is why you are thinking about it. You didn't get that interested in *him* on one date. So just remind yourself that this happens 99% of the time.
2006-10-19 15:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Always remember this: If a person wants you, nothing can keep them away. And if they don't, nothing can make them stay.
Maybe its possible you sound desperate on the dates. Guys AND girls always see that as a red flag. OR
It could be you're too friendly with them, make them see you as a friend, instead of a potential mate. I doubt its this though coz if not they would call you to keep in touch.
Do some self- reflection. Guys and girls love the chase. Its all like a kite game really; give a little, withdraw a little. And being mysterious is also a big part of the game. Always trust yourself more than your partner.
2006-10-19 15:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Liz^24 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It feels like he likes you, he merely won't be an aggressive guy. on the nightclub, he possibly had some beverages and had some "liquid braveness" in him that night. He additionally possibly would not prefer to kiss you via fact he might think of that he ought to be making a mistake that should end his dating dating with you. men can think of that heavily haha. What i tell females who're in this occasion such as you, is which you are able to decide for the kiss. in case you prefer it undesirable adequate, merely decide for it. except he's gay, he's gonna like it haha.
2016-11-24 19:04:06 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you haven't met the right guy yet. I'd say keep trying. But where are you meeting these guys that you have only gone out with once? This could be playing a big part in your dilemma.
2006-10-19 16:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the type of guy you are meeting is the type that wants some action at the end of the night, and if you don't give it to him then he probably won't want to talk to you. I can't say for sure, but this is how some guys are. Try to keep an eye out for the type of guys you are talking to, make sure they LOOK YOU IN THE EYE WHEN THEY SAY THINGS, catch them lying if they are looking away.
2006-10-19 15:46:35 · answer #5 · answered by Baba Ganoush 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
what kind of reputation do u have?? hay now i have no idea just wondering . just what r they all saying about ur first date???
sry other then that can't help but gl
2006-10-19 15:48:35 · answer #6 · answered by howcor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like most women ....You talk to much shut up and read body language you will learn a lot about men........
2006-10-19 15:55:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Maybe you haven't met the right guy.
2006-10-19 15:40:08 · answer #8 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
just gotta keep trying, don't give up!
Good luck!!
2006-10-19 15:42:16 · answer #9 · answered by coolami88 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋