i have an ldr going on... and i love her and she loves me. But she called me today and told me she smoked weed a few days ago. She first said i was going to be mad... but i wasnt cause i know that that was her first time and like she was just curious.
She called me 30 mins later and told me that she did it again.. she smoked again... now i dont know wut to do. I feel like i should try it. I havent done it but it seems that now is a good excuse to esperiment. But I am worried about her because she did it again.
Wut should I tell her? I know I am goingto do it... but I am worried about her, she told me she would never do it, not even if she was crazy. So wut do i say to her ?
2006-10-19 15:30:56 · 7 answers · asked by mierdurez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You tell her how you feel. It is no reason to hide or tell lies when this could be serious. I have a nephew that was under peer pressure tried some simple weed for the first time and it was laced. Now his mind is messed up for the rest of his life.. The problem is young and old folks think it won't happen to them. It's serious you have a choice in this relationship. you give her the choice keeping doing it.. You love her enough to let her go? Love hurt but am sure not the type of man that wants to watch someone killing their cells slowly. If she can't make the right choice then you make it for her.
I must say your one hella of a man and your love has to be true by taking the time out to put your needs aside to help her I give you much respect and love.
2006-10-19 15:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
experiment? Are you high too kid? First of all, you shouldn't be smokin that crap if you don't have an eye disorder and I am 100 percent sure you ain't 70 years old either. You don't even want to die young do you? Smokin that stuff will get you screwed up. When she says she will never do it again, she will. Smokin that stuff is addiction. I can tell she is liking that stuff. Call the drug prevention hotline to help you out. Once she is hooked on to it, she won't stop at all. Maybe she will even screw up her own life too. Its a good time to completely stop her from doing that stuff. If she still does it after she promises to stop, I don't think the relationship is worth it.
2006-10-19 22:40:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen if your g/f does that doesnt mean you need to try it if you havent tryed it why start now if she likes it and you dont like it she should respect your wishes not to do it around you and if you dont want your woman doing it then she should stop if she cares enough for you
2006-10-19 22:35:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the big deal? How old are you? Are you worried that now shes a drug addict hahaha Itll be fine shell grow out of it.
2006-10-19 22:34:42 · answer #4 · answered by ANG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It was her descision, you can't really do anything.
I do not recommend drugs, by the way. They're just a way for other people to make money off of you easily. It's pointless, man.
2006-10-19 22:33:39 · answer #5 · answered by KGB_Vampiric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her dont do it and help her trough, maybe she is missing something you can give her for her to stop
2006-10-19 22:33:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her...Tell her you will not date someone who does drugs...
2006-10-19 22:44:10 · answer #7 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋