This guy I really like and have liked for like ever talks to me but I can never seem to find the right words to say back
I always say something stupid to him or just nod and walk off
Im so shy around him but I know I shouldnt be if I really like him
what do i do to get over this
I can't even start a conversation with him
I know ur gonna say just get over it it'll never work if ur shy but this is serious dont be a smart one to me I need real answers
2006-10-19 15:21:53 · 10 answers · asked by virginiasanders 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'll tell you what. It is much more important that you love him and you can show this by your EYES, not necessarily by intellectual conversation. If he likes you in return, there's absolutely no problem. And if you understand what he says or tries to express or to explain and you do not get it, so ASK him about the details you got to know. If he likes you he will be honoured to explain, he never will be smart on you if you ask him: Why is that so and so. It's absolutely not necessary that the girl, the wife, is intellectually superior to her guy/lover/husband. Believe it.
That's the first step. You'll see, it's not a matter of time, and you won't be shy anymore in any way. Believe it.
2006-10-19 15:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by Enrico 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
chances what your saying and thinking is stupid is prolly not that stupid, it just sounds like it to you because you want to sound perfect to him and everyone, simply everyone does that.
if you rlly like him it doesnt necasarily mean you wont be shy around him so dont let that make you nervous either because a lot of times the more we like someone the shyer/more nervous we become.
even though your shy try flirting with him a bit, like jokingly picking on him or something small like that and see if he does anythin back. if he does its not anything definite but it could very well be a good sign.
anyway i hope this helped you in some way and im shy too so i know how you feel =)
2006-10-19 22:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by lindsey.. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a guy and my advice would be to just keep talking to him. AIM is a great way to talk to someone you may be nervous talking to since you aren't intimidated by them being in front of you. I talked with the girl i liked for like 3 hrs a day this summer. Obviously if they stay on that long to talk to you, then they feel something for you as well. But yes, I'm on the shy side and basically experience is everything. I just started off from aim and it works into talking in person.
2006-10-19 22:27:41 · answer #3 · answered by liquid_force_evolution 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone is a little shy around the opposite sex when you like them but aren't sure how they feel about you. Be confident, guys can sense confidence, and they like it (as long as you're not over-confident). Walk up to him and start a conversation, I bet things will turn out great!!
2006-10-19 22:26:01 · answer #4 · answered by littleblondemohawk 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im the same way. act like hes ur best girl friend in the world. start up conversations like " o i really like that shirt" or "what r u doing over the weekend" or "whats ur favorite movie right now" it worked for me and now im going out with my guy i was shy with. good luck!!!!!
2006-10-19 22:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by Caesar Chica is Sweet : ) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to take your time in the moment and relax. If your think cool in most cases you will act cool. And think to yourself. This is just a guy. A human being. Whats so special about him that you get all tripped up to talk to him. You have to down play it. And defiantly don't let him see you loose your cool.
2006-10-19 22:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Nepolean Dynamite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're getting good advice from others. I must add: In the interim, talk to other people, male and female, it'll help you gain confidence and get your momentum going.
2006-10-19 22:38:09 · answer #7 · answered by Scunnered! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't say it write him a note. Then you can plan out what you want to say, and it'll be cute.
2006-10-19 22:24:02 · answer #8 · answered by 1st time prego 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
snap out of it be for you lose him you need to keep a conversation going for it to work out,no other way to say it,good luck
2006-10-19 22:24:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try telling him he looks nice
2006-10-19 22:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by MissAteam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋