okay well theres 3 guys i REALLY REALLY like!! 1 i never see, and thew other 2 are my best friends. 1 i ahve no clue what he thinks of me but the other, has a Girl Friend. but they wont stay together long. he is going out witha girl that gets a new guy every period. so anyway. i was wondering
1. how to make 1 of them mine
2. how to know what they think of me
3. wether i should break them up or not
4. witch 1 i should go after.
please help
thanks
2006-10-19 14:40:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Remember, Bro's before Ho's. So, while you're trying to follow your heart, these guys could have their way physically and emotionally with you, and be high fiving and swapping stories behind your back. Do follow your heart, but don't forget your gut instinct if things don't feel right.
2006-10-19 14:57:10 · answer #1 · answered by rg778sx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. You can't "make" them do anything...and why would you want to? Wouldn't you rather someone dated you because they thought you were great, and not because you "made" them?
2. If you want to know what they think of you, ask them. They're your friends, right?
3. Treat others as you'd like to be treated. Do you want someone to break you and a boyfriend up? What goes around, comes around...don't do anything if you aren't completely prepare for the consequences of your actions.
4. Go after the one who is available, that you like the best (if you think you need to "go after" anyone). It's much more flattering if you let someone go after you...after you've let them know you are interested.
2006-10-19 21:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Be yourself
2. Listen to your heart
3. Never break anyone up because karma can be a terrible thing
4. Go after the one that is single, available, and has something going for them.
2006-10-19 21:43:55 · answer #3 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. what a question.......
I am sure it is very hard for you.....emotionally, and with friends!
Well, if you really, really like 3 guys......that's kind of really tough.
Why not wait it out.......and see what happens? Maybe you can have your choice.
In my own opion, there are alot of young men, looking for you...
it's easy to say "forget". however, when you are not even looking, "That Guy" will be there.....Maybe, is you sit in a different sit in school......go to the mall, if one is there, pretend you are looking for a movie.....libary....ugh...sounds bad, but good.....
take yourself out of the shell, that they have put you in. They do not even know it. It's your life......so much, so many guys out there....be careful though.....You are young...I know it is easy for me to say......Go get them ..........take only what you, as a beauty, and caring young lady would really want.
Happiness to you always,and forever..
2006-10-19 22:05:20 · answer #4 · answered by Eve 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy baby..Well ask this question to yourself first: Can you afford to loose one of your best friends? If the answer is no the first one you can't see anyway. Soo.. Look for others. If you can afford to loose oen of your best friends (or both) they're not best best friends anyway.
Right?
2006-10-19 21:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by Curio-ous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Rev up your motor, but it shouldn't take much, because of #2.
2. Intuition, and most men are a pushover.
3. Probably not.
4. I don't know.
2006-10-19 21:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well some of my friends i totally have a big crush on like blake henry and nick kiefer and well i dont know if they like me but i talk to them all i can and if i ask them out im afraid that they will say no and it will ruin our friendship that me blake and nick have so follow your heart do whats best for your friendship thats all i got to say you dont want to ruin your friendship by asking your friends out ok
2006-10-19 21:47:05 · answer #7 · answered by desperat_jr high_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you need to go somewhere and sit down cause you sound like a hooker playing pool good luck you need help from your self cause they all will turn on you
2006-10-19 21:45:36 · answer #8 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart, but remember this mates before dates. your friends stick around much longer than dates do
2006-10-19 21:42:28 · answer #9 · answered by pcdo_universe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quick kiss will show the way, you just gotta pick who to do it to
2006-10-19 21:43:41 · answer #10 · answered by Sassafrass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋