We have been dating for a while but just became a couple a week ago. He is telling me he loves me but i dont know if he is just saying that or if he is telling me the truth. How do i find out?
2006-10-19 14:38:39 · 17 answers · asked by babydevil200669 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems a bit early...he may be mistaking infatuation for love...smile and thank him for the sweet words...don't reciprocate them unless you are sure that's how you feel...
2006-10-19 14:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one thing you are rite, gurl times have changed so much, so being twelve I believe has no real prevalence. Okay for him telling you that after one week, well this brings up the question of what does he really mean when he says those 3 infamous words. Because those words mean so much to so many different people, so here is what I think, just me of coarse. Sit him down alone, not around any of your friends or his and ask him what he thinks love is, and what does he mean when he says it to you. Think about it yourself also, find in yourself what it means to you. After you guys talk and find what you guys really feel, then take it from there, is it love, lust or just really good friends? Don't just go out swinging because he says he loves you after a week, you never know what exactly he means until you communicate with him, and it goes both ways, be open and mature when you talk together and it will go a long way. good luck....B GOOD!
2016-05-22 03:49:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm dunno about the strip club thing, I dont mind if my hubby goes to strip clubs (and he has) but I know he loves me.
I think it's all about time, He may well love you with every part of his being but in a time when the word "love" is thrown around like a frizbee I can see why your unsure.
I'd only know my hubby for a month when he first said "i love you" and I wondered for ages if it was true.
I guess what convinced me was his actions, he talks to me about everything, he is open about what he did with his mates when I wasnt there (there is no "what happened on the boys night stays on the boys night" crap) we are best friends, he values my opinion and through his actions I see that he wants to do what he can to make me happy(even if he's wrong at least he tried) it's heaps of stuff.
Unless he is saying it to get into your pants ("oh come on baby i love you please lets do it) I would take him at his word. Only say it back if you mean it (like that other answer said).
If he is saying it in a situation where there doesnt seem to be a "but" infront of it (would be more because he wants something. "but ....i love you") then i would say he rally does believe he loves you.....only time will tell if his love is lasting.
Having said all that dont ask him to prove his love by saying "if you loved me you would...." that only proves that you DONT love him.
2006-10-19 15:01:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THe "L" word shouldn't be used after 1 week... You haven't had the time to get to know all there is about each other. You are jumping the gun here, he might like you alot but that is it...
Love is something that can take months, years to evolve...
Enjoy being together, have fun.... Actions speak louder than words....
2006-10-19 14:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by doclakewrite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably believes he is telling you the truth. I would say after one week of dating ... what he is really saying is that the chemistry between the two of you makes him feel really good inside. And that he sincerely enjoys spending his time with you. All positive things ! Good Luck ! :)
2006-10-19 14:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would depend on how long you 2 have known each other and how old you 2 are. If hes saying it just to'get some',he probably doesn't,but if he says it,and is respectful to you then he probably has very strong,even feelings of love for you! Good Luck! :)
2006-10-19 14:50:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
time will tell.
but if you´ve been together for just a week... i wouldn´t say it´s true. love takes time. it doesn´t mean that he´s lying to you - he´s probably just excited... and doesn´t have any other way to express it than by saying "i love you".
2006-10-19 14:42:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like it's happening too fast. right now, tell him you aren't sure if it's been long enough to tell. i've said that to a guy and he said " that's alright, but i'm still going to say it" and that's how i knew he really loved me.
2006-10-19 14:43:15 · answer #8 · answered by troubled 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a lie, no one can tell if they are in love in a week, unless they are seriously immature.
2006-10-19 14:41:02 · answer #9 · answered by Brixton B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your hands on some truth serum, drug him with it, and wait for him to start talking.
Seriously now, how on earth would WE know if YOU don't?
2006-10-19 14:41:43 · answer #10 · answered by josie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋