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Question

i neded help i have a bf who i know cheated on me but he sais he did not but i saw him do it should i just stay with him or get ride of him

Answer 1

Kick him to the curb! There are loving men out there who will not cheat on you. He's not appreciating or loving you the way you deserve. You have to think about your health, too. There are a lot of STDs out there, some of which cannot be completely prevented by condoms. Herpes, HPV, and even AIDS are some. Love yourself even if he doesn't. Think of this, too. If you do stay with him, won't you always be wondering what he's doing when you're not around? You don't need that stress.

Answer 2

It depends on how much you care about yourself.

If you are certain of what you saw and you don't think very well of yourself, then stay with him as long as he will have you. Or if having a guy around sometimes is worth more to you than if he cheats on you, then stick with him.

If you aren't certain of what you saw and you were the only one who saw it, then ask him and the person you think he was cheating on you with about it. Confront them separately and without telling others about what you saw, you don't want it getting back to him until you hear his story. If their answers don't seem believable or don't mesh with each other, then he probably was cheating on you. If it seems you may have been mistaken, however, then you might want to stay with him, but keep your eyes and ears open just in case. They might be good liars.

There's an old saying, "Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me." Giving someone the benefit of the doubt once can be forgiven, if doubt exists. If you keep doing it concerning the same thing, then although they are in the wrong for screwing you over, it's also your own fault for allowing them to.

Answer 3

Ha Ha lol... Interesting, things like that you should talk with your friends about not post it on the net for everyone to see, I AM SO SORRY TO LAUGH BUT ITS TRUE HE IS CHEATING ON YOU WHEN HE DOES EXPLAIN OR TAKE HIS TIME TO ANSWER IT. Why do you acuse him of cheeting in the first place think about that, if you want personnal help from a nother guy email me at [e-mail].

Answer 4

Why would you stay with a cheater? What's to stop him from cheating again? How many times does he have to disrespect you before you'll decide you've had enough? Being alone is better than being with a cheater.

Answer 5

I would definitely kick him to the curb.. once a cheater and more importantly a liar always a liar and cheater. There are plenty of other guys out there that are good honest caring and you deserve better. iIf he's going to lie about that what else is he going to lie about?

Answer 6

If you saw him and he denys it then you just need to move on! Why be with someone who would cheat and then lie about it - both are bad to do to someone you supposely love or anyone! You deserve better.

Answer 7

Get rid of him........ If in fact you saw him with your own eyes ! But if it was from another source , I'd think about it . Once a cheater .....Always a CHEATER .....More fish in the sea ya know !

Answer 8

Get ride of him, don't waste you time, he will never change that became worse with time, always cheating on you

Answer 9

its up to you. tell him u know and that u saw him and then break up with him or give him a second chacne. u have to ask urself if he is worth it. but if u give him a second chance and he messes up again then dont give him a third one and kick him to the curb.

Answer 10

If you're a stupid, weak-minded person with no pride, dignity or self-respect and who likes feeling second best and being treated like a worthless piece of meat, then you should stay with him. Thanks for asking this really challenging and complex question.