2006-10-19 14:10:44 · 28 answers · asked by dont_kknow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. I have the opposite problem. Sorry.
I wouldn't do anything too overt to draw attention to your inclinations. You can show affection for him without being suggestive. If he senses a spark, or connects with you, a natural connection will be made.
If not. Don't force it. It wasn't meant to be and it wouldn't end well.
In general guys are fools. They're not used to saying no. So don't come on too strong. I've seen a lot of girls get used quickly if they get involved too fast.
Get his interest. Make him earn your trust first. You're worth it.
2006-10-19 15:57:32 · answer #1 · answered by kristi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, (from a guy's point of view)! I have loved someone who had no idea how I felt about her. You are right, it does take a lot of courage to come out because of the fear of rejection and maybe losing her forever (because this way at least you can be "friends" and be "close" to each other. To be honest, I was too much of a coward to ever let her know.
2006-10-19 14:14:28 · answer #2 · answered by The Prince 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently in that very similar situation. I really like this guy and I want to tell him how I feel about him...I've beated around the bush a couple of times and I think he's gotten the hint but I have not been forthcoming to telling him out loud. It is really hard to feel this way and not being able and/or certain that you can take a risk and tell them exactly how you feel...I am struggling with it and will hopefully have the nerve to tell him soon. It is tough being in that situation.
2006-10-19 14:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by LES 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure, other people have loved us, and not told us, until, at my age 66. I had no idea......yes, I have, however not told him...
was in my mid twenties...Gosh, my heart would pound, when I even saw him. We when out on a lucheon date....I was so nervous...I could not even talk to him ........ I think of him, once in awhile.....However, I could not ask for anymore than I have...
Wonderful children....grown, grandchildren, without the man I married. If I had married him..would it have been the same?
No....I love my life now.......
If you love him, and you are of age..at least 21, or more, so you have had someone to love, or love you.......why not tell him now..
If years have passed.......They would love it...and who knows...
maybe, they are free..........and loved you too....a new beginning.
Keep it in mind...as you grow older.
Love, is forever in YOUR heart.....no one can take that away...
share it.
2006-10-19 14:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by Eve 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loved? No...had a great fondness or affection for? Oh yeah...I've had strong feelings for someone who either didn't know or didn't reciprocate...
...but love would require time together and really knowing someone, and if that occurs it would be unlikely he wouldn't know even if he didn't feel the same...
2006-10-19 14:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-10-19 14:11:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now how can you really love someone that you really don't know.People use love to freely,they must mean like,and then you have to know a little something about them,likes and dislikes and ect.....
2006-10-19 14:15:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I have like someone who did not know I liked him. I only love ones I have gotten to know.
2006-10-19 14:14:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yeah, all throughout high school I LOVED Joey and I'm pretty sure he had no idea. He's probably a loser now come to think of it!
2006-10-19 14:12:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure enough did!!!! For 6 years, I loved my best friend. We went our seperate ways two years ago though...
but, he is now an alcoholic idiot... so I guess I got lucky there afterall.
2006-10-19 14:14:24 · answer #10 · answered by Ashley P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋