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Alright i asked a question yesterday about what to do with my 3 year old son because i can't move much because of my sergury and he's feeling lonely , well i showed him my stiches and explained that i cant play much for awhile , now he's constantly touching them i think just to piss me off.. and i tryed to give him time out in his room but he just walks out knowing i cant easily make him go back .. what should i do?

2006-10-19 13:56:24 · 8 answers · asked by Exsavior my son is the coolest 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Parenting

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Get him some coloring books and let him color next to you or some movies and turn them on.. He is just testing your buttons be firm and tell him no you don't touch daddys hurt spot. He sounds like he wants to be with you so maybe get him some quiet activitys he can do besides you or in the same room... ?

2006-10-19 14:01:34 · answer #1 · answered by Alexis221 4 · 1 0

I would have to agree with the first person who answered. It seems like he just wants to spend any kind of time with you.

I had a C Section with my second child and couldnt move for days. My two year old didint understand that mommy couldn't go and play like she used to and with a new baby she wasnt getting the attention she was used to so my husband bought some coloring books and those color wonder pages and she and i sat in bed a few hours a day and had our special time it was a great way for her to spend time with mommy...

As far as him touching your stitches depending how old he is he sees that daddy has a boo boo and as all little children do they reasearch,... just explain that it hurts daddt when he does that and he should stop

2006-10-20 01:32:01 · answer #2 · answered by sarah 1 · 0 0

He wants to be near you. First of all he is only three. All little boys want to be like their dads so please ask God for more patience and keep explaining to him why he can't touch them.(short attention span) Let him climb next to you and talk to him about his day and how you are doing calmly. Turn off the TV and read some books to him until he walks off as three-year old's do and then just give him extra hugs, this is God's way of showing you both how to properly communicate as father and son ( so many fathers and sons do not get along and this is when it usually begins) and have your wife show him what he can do to help daddy's situation (ie,bring you snacks,help with meals, fluff your pillow). God Bless you and your family

2006-10-19 21:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Try watching movies with him. If you can maybe you can have him bring a game over that doesn't envolve alot of movement. Or If you can you can color with him or have him bring his coloring book or paper and crayons over to you and ask him to draw you something. Also if you have someone in the house with you , you could ask them to help out a little bit. You could also explain to him that he can not touch your stiches because it hurts you or something like that.

2006-10-19 22:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Andy 5 · 1 0

Tell him that it hurts when he does that , and that there not supposed to be touched, try playin games with him or watching movies, read him stories, color with him,

2006-10-20 00:08:12 · answer #5 · answered by button 3 · 1 0

My advice: ignore the inconsiderate answers some people (jerks) leave!

2006-10-19 21:31:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Call Grandma to come over and take care of you both.

2006-10-19 21:10:50 · answer #7 · answered by Rockford 7 · 0 1

sell him on ebay?

2006-10-19 21:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by hardartsystems 3 · 1 2

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