There's this guy I like who doesn't really notice me much. How can I talk to him without being really obvious and flirty? How do I get him 2 like me?
2006-10-19 13:53:35 · 5 answers · asked by sirprizeme139 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What are his hobbies? Do you see him in shirts that say Sporting Goods companies? Does enjoy football, baseball, hockey? Look for the obvious stickers, drawings, emblems, other items that might give you a clue. "School/Work environment???"
Let's say you see him wearing a shirt with Callaway marked on it. That's Callaway Golf Company. You get most of those shirts at Pro Shops at Golf Courses. He likes Golf... So get you a Golf Digest and thumb through it... Read some of the articles on different aspects of the Game....
Then one day you say, "Hey, John... May I talk with you a minute?" "What's up?" "I was wondering, you like Golf, right?" "Yeah, how did you know that?" "You're wearing Golf stuff (dummy)... I was wondering I'm thinking of taking up the sport, Do you have any recommendations of a place I can get a good set of clubs without spending a fortune?"
HOPEFULLY, he's not an idiot and will pick up that you may be interested in developing something of a friendship. He'll say, "I'll take you to a place that we can find you some good clubs at a reasonable price."
Do you see what I'm suggesting, you are coming in the back door without being obvious... Football, Basketball, or Hockey would be easier, you just find out what team he roots for and find more information about the team. Then watch a game and talk to your girlfriends about it in his presence... "Oh did you see that bonehead play that Shaq pulled last night... What was he thinking?" "Are you a Heat fan?" "eh, sort of, I caught the game on the tube last night... "
You see!!! It opens up conversation and that's what you want to do... Maybe he's a NASCAR fan and has numbers on his car/truck.
Generally, you show interest in what he's interested in and he'll show interest in you!!!
2006-10-19 14:12:14 · answer #1 · answered by James B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when you want the guy to notice you look hot wear hot close
and ask him if he wants to hang out. get to know him later on when it is the right day ,place, and time make the first move if he doesn't.
2006-10-19 20:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by lady_of_chase 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, get to know his likes and dislikes. and then when he's feeling loney pounce! Ask him on a date
2006-10-19 20:57:19 · answer #3 · answered by brayglenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him but think of someone else the whole time it will keep your mind off of things
2006-10-19 20:55:33 · answer #4 · answered by Liizzily21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
smile to him be attractive around him
2006-10-19 20:56:03 · answer #5 · answered by salsa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋