Ok, well I've been with my boyfriend for about 10 months and a half...and on Tuesday, I added a girl from high school that used to like him(he graduated last year) and she told me that if she were me, she wouldn't be with him because he isn't boyfriend material...and that she hates when girls get screwed over by guys who are *****....(even though she hates me....) and that once a cheater...always a cheater cuz she knew how he had hurt me in the past....but I forgave him for it...but then I asked him what it was that she was talking about....and he said that it had happened like maybe 4 or 5 months ago....and that they had made out...I'm thinking this isn't all that they did...because I've heard rumors...but after all, rumers are just rumors....and I told him to tell me the truth...and he said thats all that happened....should I break up with him or give him another chance?
2006-10-19 13:50:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I really do love him. It really hurt when I found this out...specially since right after it happened he came to see me....
2006-10-19 13:55:10 · update #1
like you said, a rumor is just that- a rumor, they can't always be trusted....the best way to figure out what to do here is to follow your heart. when you asked him about this other girls and he told you that all they did was made out, did you believe him? after 10 months together you should be able to read him pretty well. if you feel like he is telling you th truth, i would say to stay together. if you feel like he lied, or you aren't sure, then end it....it isn't worth finding out later that more did happen between them
2006-10-19 13:59:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi hunny
that's totally upto u
i mean if my fella turned round to me and said that he kissed someone when he was goin out wiv me i would probably give it another go wiv our relationship but then that wouldn't stop me from being paranoid and keep thinking every time he leaves the flat to to go work or to go out wiv his m8s i would probably be thinking maybe he's goin to see someone or that he is seeing someone else u now things like that so if i did end up like that i would probably end the relationship no matter how much i love him
ok a kiss is just a kiss but what can happen next!!??
2006-10-19 20:57:35 · answer #2 · answered by Katie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there it sounds as if you've already given him a chance once before and now here you are again. I would say get rid quickly while you still have your dignity and sanity in check and thank god that you're rid of the cheeting bas****. p.s dont forget to shagg his best friend afterwards to really rub salt in the wounds! lol thatl teach him!
2006-10-19 20:59:13 · answer #3 · answered by answer me this..... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself these questions: do you really love him or are you just comfortable having a steady man around? Also has he done other things in the past to make you think he can't be trusted?
if you do love him, and he's proven to be trustworthy otherwise then give it one more try, if not move on to someone new
2006-10-19 20:55:34 · answer #4 · answered by gypse76 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u should get rid of him. he already admitted to you that he kissed another girl, and didnt u say u were already giving him another chance? well, u cant keep giving him chance after chance. he'll just take it as a sign of weakness and he'll keep doing things woth other girls and just keep you around for a "botty" call if you will. so i think you should end it. u dont deserve to be treated like that. let him run his "game" on sum1 else.
2006-10-19 21:04:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump your boyfriend. I don't think that other girl is concerned about you either. She is a loser for making out with your boyfriend. I would avoid her as well. Why don't you make some new friends who treat you with respect.
2006-10-19 20:54:20 · answer #6 · answered by funandsun20 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think both of you will need some space, you should give time for yourself and think if you really want to be with this guy who has cheated and hurt you..and if your bf really loves you he would do anything to win you back and if he dont then you must go on with your life and find somebody that will truly loves you.:)
2006-10-19 21:03:53 · answer #7 · answered by Hime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to put it this way, but your age plays a big role in this. If you're young, hey boys are like that- horney, cheating asses. But, if you guys are a little older I'd say- Girl don't ever let a MAN do that sh!t to you!!!
2006-10-19 21:02:45 · answer #8 · answered by neveralone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give im another chance he deserves it, she probably told you all this so that you would dump him so she could have another chance! maybe hes the one! thats 10 whole months you know!
2006-10-19 20:57:50 · answer #9 · answered by Liizzily21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait, you have been seeing him about 11 months. this making out thingy happened 5 months ago. so yeah, he was cheating on you so can i sayy...DUMP!
2006-10-19 20:58:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋