I am 10-20 pounds over my ideal weight.
2006-10-19 13:35:49 · 15 answers · asked by Unknown 3 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
say "thank you for your valued opinion" and walk away
2006-10-19 13:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Cricket 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe you should respond with the behavior of a noble person who possesses dignity and wisdom by simply ignoring that comment and try to forgive her.
That can be extremely hard to do but trust me, out of experience if you respond to that comment with dignity and nobility then everything will unfold as it should, in other words she may or may not be punished but it shouldn't matter to you if she receives what she deserves because if you truly forgive her then you should not have thoughts of vengeance on your mind and with that forgiveness will come a reward, maybe not one you'll recognize but there shall surely be a reward.
2006-10-19 20:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sean M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it is kind to say something nice to the little girl but I do not think I could hold back what Ithought.. Instead of saying "you are so kind to let me know".. I would have blurted back "I would rather be a fat freak than a freaky b*tch like you"
2006-10-19 20:40:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go slap her parents. They obviously did a pretty crappy job raising her. But, in all honesty why do you care what an 11 year old thinks. And if you know you're overweight. Stop eating bad food and start exercising more. GEEZE
2006-10-19 20:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by shakia27 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell her you don't care what some flat chested, bony a-s-s b-i-t-c-h thinks of you. Then smile and walk away, whilst sticking out your chest and wiggling your curvy hips/butt in her face. Arrange for a couple of guys to whilstle at you as you walk past. That should annoy the crap out of her lol. HTH : )
2006-10-19 21:57:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who conveys a judgment about another person is simply showing themselves to be judgmental. Their opinion says nothing factual about the person they are judging, only about themselves. You do not have to let anyone else's opinion of you affect you in the least.
2006-10-19 21:12:24 · answer #6 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let her know it affected you, she'll keep doing it. Go on as normal. Dont worry about a few extra pounds! Everyones got 'em.
2006-10-19 20:38:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. The opinions of 11 year old girls don't matter too much to me.
2006-10-19 20:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. If she says anything else; kill her with kindness. If you show anger or a bad reaction to being overweight, she will only keep saying bad things. Best game is to not let her know it bothers you.
2006-10-19 20:39:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
How about ignoring the little snot.
She is only 11years old, and not very bright either.
You can always say "i may be fat, but you're stupid. Fat can go away, but stupid is forever." if you really want to sink to her level.
2006-10-19 20:39:34 · answer #10 · answered by phantomlimb7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a brat. Probably a very angry one. Feel sorry for her. She ain't goin' nowhere with that attitude, if she stays that way.
2006-10-19 20:40:43 · answer #11 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋