Ok, so theres this girl who i kinda have a crush on. Now im pretty good lookin, and she thinks im cute. I know she likes me cause she told me in a sort of way that she didnt, but did. Its kind of confusin but i know she does. Now heres the thing.. she is good looking to me,, but kinda nerdy. A part of me dosnt want to go out with her.. but another of me wants to cause she got out of a bad relatiohship and cause i kinda like her. I just dont know what to do. If i go out with her ill be the laughing stalk of the whole school. Help! I jneed advice! What should i do?
2006-10-19 13:29:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who cares what the rest of the school thinks? Once you graduate, nobody will care about anything that happened in high school. Just do whatever is in your best interest, which, in this case, sounds like going after this girl.
2006-10-19 13:31:55 · answer #1 · answered by robtheman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you concerned with what everyone else will think? If you really like this girl and she's a good person that you'd be an idiot not to ask her out. Ten years from now she'll probably be a very wealthy woman thanks to her being a nerd in school and where will you?
2006-10-19 20:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by jasweetangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like her go with her, if you are the laughing stalk it will be because other are jealous maybe of ya'll connection or ya'll get along real good. do what makes you happy, not what everyone else says because in the end you might have found the one and there's no telling what the future might bring. do what you feel is right
2006-10-19 20:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't want to go out with somebody because your worried about what the school will say, then you are a complete coward. Grow some balls. If you like someone then do whats in your heart.
2006-10-19 20:33:03 · answer #4 · answered by Gabbrielle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you care what other people think, if your friends are laughing at you then there not really good friends to begin with.
If you like her then yes go out with her regardless of what other people think.
Unless you want to be a typical shallow male.
2006-10-19 20:32:33 · answer #5 · answered by E_E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spare her the pain of going out with a guy who's going to treat her like she's an embarassment. She deserves better than that.
2006-10-19 20:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by farmgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one question is the whole school going to be in your life forever so what is the problem if you like her then go ask her out and she just might surprise you and like you to nerdyness is crazy cause all persons are human being and deserve to be treated as one good luck
2006-10-19 20:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out, so what if you are the laughing stock, you may find that she is an amazing person and has an amazing personalitly. You will never know until you try.
2006-10-19 20:34:17 · answer #8 · answered by ridingis4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like her, but she is not cool enough for you to go out with? You know what, stay away from her. You will be doing her a favor.
2006-10-19 20:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by I like Chinese food 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with her. Nerds can be "Freaks" in other ways if you know what I mean. Who cares what your friends think your the one gettin some not them..HEHE
2006-10-19 20:32:24 · answer #10 · answered by steelguypgh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋