we do go play pool and I spend almost everynight with him. My clothes and stufff are all over his house. I tried to clean all my stuff up and take it home, but he said, "na, just leave it here." He loaned me his airconditioner for the past summer and he even helped me move when no one else would. He has taken care of me everytime I have been sick, even when we were not together. He helped me with my daughter, he has always been there one way or another. He just doesn't tell me he loves me anymore and he doesn't kiss me and he doesn't tell me I'm beautiful anymore. I try to get a response out of him, but he never says anything anymore. But if I ever need anything he has been there. See now why I' m confused?
2006-10-19 13:21:04 · 5 answers · asked by lynchball 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry to hear your story. It is not easy being with someone who isn't at the same emotional place as you are.
He is taking your presence in his life for granted. He just want your company, but no passion. You are his pair of comfortable old shoes.
I would say cut your losses. He sounds like a loyal friend, so I would stay friends with him but channel your romantic energy elsewhere.
Best wishes.
2006-10-19 13:53:20 · answer #1 · answered by JQT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it does sound like he's not into u anymore or he just may need a break, but don't just jump to conclusions ask first.
if he says that's not it then try a few things to spice up ya relationship, like dress up for him (use ya imagination), get a couple of toys or even some conversation cards.
Good Luck!
2006-10-19 20:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by TamLuv2406 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how'bout YOU tell him something to make him feel nice?besides you should already know he loves you.flirt more,spark something up with him and then he might realise it again what a great person you are.
2006-10-19 20:25:55 · answer #3 · answered by ◄ZΨΦИ► 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to just wants to be friends now.
2006-10-19 20:27:29 · answer #4 · answered by sexybabybloo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously not into you any more.
2006-10-19 20:23:49 · answer #5 · answered by radiantqueen_t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋