Women. Is there anything you would rather not know about when it comes to your man? Do you want to know what he desires, what pleases him, how he finds satisfaction? Do you want complete honesty. I am very open when it comes to expressing myself verbally, and I think a relationship is strongest when there is openness and acceptance. I want to know if most women appreciate a man who is emotionally naked in a relationship and who expresses his desires for his woman. Do you appreciate these attributes? Is it good for a man to please himself?
2006-10-19 13:19:58 · 17 answers · asked by brad 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A note to lost in confusion: Absolutely not. I am certainly not at all that way. I am talking more about what I desire. Do you want to know about what your man desires? I am totally against guilt tripping, jealousy, control and manipulation. I despise those elements in a relationship and would not remain in a relationship where those elements surface regularly because it is an indication that you are settling for less than what best suits you. Also , I am not speaking of sharing details of when you injured yourself. I am talking about passion, desire and romantic love. The behind closed doors stuff. As far as the pleasing himself, you know what I mean. Do you think it is desireable, respectable or acceptable for a man to physically please himself?
2006-10-19 13:37:29 · update #1
Yes they do want to know everything but don't tell them everything because it'll come back to haunt you later.
2006-10-19 13:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is good for a man to be open. Knowing what each other wants and likes is a good thing.
I have a man that is very open. Except with him, he is very emotional. To much emotion such as being to jealous, always wanting mates attention can put a damper on things. He thinks if I don't want to snuggle or cuddle all the time or if I have other things to do he gives me a guilt trip.
Are you like that? If so...no most women don't like that.
I love my man, I sometimes wish he would just chill and give me space. He does after I confront him with giving me space, but then I get the guilt trip for it later. ughhhhhhhhh He just don't seem to understand me. Yes I love him, but no I can't give him 95% of my day either. Ok..getting off the subject..sorry.
2006-10-19 13:30:45 · answer #2 · answered by Dawn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there needs to be a balance. Each person in the relationship should share equally. If you are getting too far ahead in sharing then slow down a bit, but if you both are enjoying expressing yourselves then go for it.
2006-10-19 13:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by Lyf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very honest and highly value that others...even if it hurts. I think that being open with others is a way of building stronger relationships. But...I don't want to know about your bodily functions and I don't need all the gorey details of the time you severed your arm with a ban saw.
2006-10-19 13:27:58 · answer #4 · answered by Girly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, personally, believe it's most important.
But, many people I know seem to find it difficult to deal with reality in general.
The best thing is to communicate those thoughts you've listed with the person before becoming too emotionally involved. That way you end up with someone who feels the same way.. or appreciates the way you are.
2006-10-19 13:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by nuovoterra 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES, YES, YES....and no. It is a good thing to be "emotionally naked", however, there are some things that a woman needs to discover on her own just as there are things that a man needs to discover on his own. A woman needs to know what you want and need in your mate up front so that she can determine if she is right for you.
2006-10-19 13:27:24 · answer #6 · answered by radiantqueen_t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I disagree. Everything will not be alright haha. Everything good eventually falls apart, count your blessings before they're gone sweetheart
2016-05-22 03:34:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really thought it was hot when my ex told me things he thought or had done in the past (especially crazy self-deprecating things that he did as a teenager).
I like hearing that stuff, but I don't like men to go overboard on what happened with other women.
I don't know what you mean by "is it good for a man to please himself?" Please himself in what way?
So, you mean, masturbate in front of her. Well, she likes that once in a while, but mostly women like some intense foreplay, which may include you masturbating yourself some (but not to orgasm) and then they want the dick.
2006-10-19 13:23:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Emotinally naked= A man who will be taken for granted. The more mysterious you are the more attractive you remain.
2006-10-19 13:22:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are a gold man and if more man were like you then there wouldn't be so many breakup stay strong someone is looking for you good luck
2006-10-19 13:26:16 · answer #10 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes its good for a guy to be completly sure of who he is and is able to express him self well verbally but its also good for a guy to know when to stop .women love to hear good things about themselves but dont over do it trust me we can tell :) umm.... i dont really know what u mean by please yourself so im gonna leave that to someone else...;) but yeah i think thats about it
2006-10-19 13:24:30 · answer #11 · answered by *Miss C* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋