Okay, so the guy that I have been seeing for the last month lives three hours away. Not too bad, but both being busy and working. We only see each other everyother week. That's probably how it's going to be until I have my break in school. We talk for hours apon hours on the phone. I relaly like him and vs versa. Last night we talked and he thinks that we should just be friends, but he still treats me like we are dating??? I don't undersand why he's doing this? He likes me. Do you think that it's distance, or do you think that he is just pulling me along so he doenst feel lonely and is waiting for someone better. I think he's been hurt in the past, but guys aren't usually really good to me, so It's really hard to think of men as the victum. I really want an opinion from a guy. I want to know if he's pullin' anything. It's nothing to do w/ sex for you pervs. Not an issue. For real tho, what do you think? Why does he want this? Should I tell him what I'm thinkin'? Thanks
2006-10-19 13:18:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, perhaops you're both busy and it's tough to just see each other every other weekend unless you are REALLY into the relationship.
Abso-friggin-lutely you should tell him what you are thinking. The key to any relationship, on any level is talking about EVERYTHING, a friend once told me that if you talk about the small things all the time, the big things are really easy to discuss, he was right!
2006-10-19 13:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by stratplayer1967 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not really a long distance relationship, Im assuming your considering it one because your too young to actually go see him yourself or vice versa? When I was in school, I dated a boy from a different state, and it was hard, but we made it work. You have the advantage of him coming to the same school as you later on, so why not just give it a try?
2016-05-22 03:32:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says just be friends, he's being pretty upfront. It's the one's that love you but only have a month to live and just loaned there car and all their money to a wealthy uncle that you need to watch out for. Just be friends and see what happens.
2006-10-19 13:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by Steve M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In seriousness, you say its not about sex, but please dont delude yourself, IT IS - and its kinda diffucult to do from a long distance. ALL guys love sex - not just hardcore, but also the other stuff associated - pecking, hugging, holding hands etc etc.
Sorry.
2006-10-19 13:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by pennines123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your writing along letter, I don't have time to read it so to answer your question lets say...go out to and eat.
2006-10-19 13:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes really in to you
2006-10-19 13:20:49 · answer #6 · answered by Carlos P 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
funny you should ask????
2006-10-19 13:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by ♥LADY INDIA♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋