I have never had a good guy friend that didn't like me at one point or another. (Okay, I have actually hade one). This sucks! I feel like I can't ever get close to a guy, because I always end up hurting them, and it kills me. Why does this happen? Is it possible for a guy and a girl to be good friends and not like each other?
2006-10-19 13:16:39 · 13 answers · asked by why? 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have a question for you are you leading them on and then it to late to let them know that you just want their friendship so you need to be honest with yourself good luck
2006-10-19 13:22:07 · answer #1 · answered by poda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I had a few very good male friends. It's very important that you make it clear to them that you are not interested in anything else other than friendship. The moment such a friend has a girlfriend- he will stop being that kind of a friend to you, because most of the time the girlfriend does not allow her man to continue having a close female friend.... that's when YOU will feel hurt a bit.
2006-10-19 13:32:45 · answer #2 · answered by justmemimi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. Maybe the problem is you. Maybe your such a sweetie that the guys really end up wanting to be more than just your friend. I know, I met a lady that I'm great friends with, but if I could spend the rest of my life with her I would, I so much want to be more than her friend.
2006-10-19 13:21:03 · answer #3 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you cannot be someones friend and not like them...part of someone being your friend, is you liking them...
Yes, men and women can be platonic friends...perhaps you are just drawn to guys who have more in mind than friendship to begin with, but you never end up feeling the spark for them...
2006-10-19 13:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes well it is very possible and you have to make it clear to them at first and say friends is best for now lets move slow with it. That will put up the boundary and he will know then.
2006-10-19 13:20:15 · answer #5 · answered by high_metamorph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have lots of guy friends so i guess it is possible butwhen you are friends with one guy if you start to see signs that he likes you more than a friend let him know that you don't feel the same way before he gets in to deep and you both don't get as badly hurt.
2006-10-19 13:21:11 · answer #6 · answered by Cheer4Life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!! You must like that person in order to be friends.As for the part where you end up hurting them just give me a beep on skype it's easy for me to help that way or on yahoo messenger
Skype ID: great_duke
Yahoo ID: great_duke_of_segorean
2006-10-19 13:20:11 · answer #7 · answered by DUKE OF SEGOREAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats how men are, we only want to be your friend, because you wont sleep with us, so we go to friends status in hopes you will change your mind in the next 5-10 years.
2006-10-19 13:18:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. you just have to be blunt with them from the get go and tell them that you want to be friends and nothing else
2006-10-19 13:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your writing along letter, I don't have time to read it so to answer your question lets say...go out to and eat.
2006-10-19 13:19:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋