I met this girl through MySpace who turns out to be a B-list Actress. We have a lot in common and she is funny, attractive and nerdy which I love. She likes what I do (my profession) and I think she finds me (or what I do) interesting. So she has invited me over for parties (twice), introduced me to her friends and its all cool but I didn't get the vibe that she was interested in being anything more than friends. I think I may be something of a novelty to her?
I want to ask her out but if she just sees us as friends, I am afraid that it might makes things odd between us so early in the friendship. I don't want to jeopardize that but at the same time, I feel like if I wait, then I am cemented in that role.
What do people think?
2006-10-19 13:04:48 · 14 answers · asked by Alex E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
By no vibe, it could have been that we were in a group setting with her mom. It wasn't like we were alone so that might shed some light on things. The irony is that I think her mom REALLY likes me.
2006-10-19 13:08:38 · update #1
Unless you are cool with being just friends you need to move quick. Once a woman pigeonholes you as a "friend" your chances for romance are almost none. It sounds like you've already got alot going in your favor. Don't be afraid of rejection, if she doesn't want you than the relationship that she wants isn't what you are looking for. It would die off anyway.
2006-10-19 13:09:01 · answer #1 · answered by Cain 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
haha. I've definitely been faced with this dilema before. I'd say you should go for it, because if you don't now she will see you as just a friend forever. Also, if she invited you to 2 parties already, she must like you. ;) If she's kind of nerdy, then I don't think she'd just come out and say, "I like you!!!!" Just let her know that if she is not interested in going out with you, you still want to ber her friend, and you don't want anything to be wierd between you two.
Best of luck!
2006-10-19 13:10:14 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you may want to be careful about believing that she is actually a B- list actress. But if you know for sure then okay. Well you can always just try asking her hypothetically. Like say I like you would you go out with me if I asked. I dont know its up to you.
2006-10-19 13:08:36 · answer #3 · answered by lil_frosty93654 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 11:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think too many guys fall into the "friends" zone.
I suggest telling her how you feel. If not, you /can/ still be friends if you both work at it not being awkward. Then it's not.
But if you don't tell her you'll just get jealous at the boyfriends until one day it's too late...not another "what about brian" series...lol.
2006-10-19 13:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by leaysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest. Just tell her that you are seeking a romantic relationship, rather than a friendship. You should bet a ready answer to your dilemma.
2006-10-19 13:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by darkdiva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it! she could be waiting for you to make a move. how else will you know if you don't go for it. i see no reason to "wait around and see if something happens" if she tells you she doesn't have the same feelings so what, it'll suck for a few days but it's better than pining for her and always wondering what if
2006-10-19 13:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by lo_zeke8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off exspress your feelings to her and c where her mind is. and its always better to become very close friends before pursuing a relationship
2006-10-19 13:10:45 · answer #8 · answered by mr_cashmere69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shold wait longer and see if "her feeling" change for you.*she might even ASK YOU OUT* that sounds werid but still LOVE COMS IN ALL FORMS!!!:>
2006-10-19 13:11:58 · answer #9 · answered by Richie_Grl#1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her, you should go for it. Even if she turns you down, it's her loss.
2006-10-19 13:10:49 · answer #10 · answered by Nanner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋