i really miss having a b.f & i feel like im all alone in my life. My friends say i NEED a b.f. Which, they take me as some one who craves them. I have noticed i haved changed too. i feel that now i dont have a b.f. i have no excitement in skool. i've grown away from my friends cuz thatz all they tlk about i want to be apart of this if only......................... i didn't feel all alone.
2006-10-19 12:58:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let me make this clear to all the teenage and adult girls out there:
You do not ever need a man to validate you.
You are awesome the way you are and should work on self-confidence.
2006-10-19 13:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by leaysa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes when i hear a young girl like yourself talking like this it could almost be a young boy with the exact same problem. What i'm trying to say is that same things that are bothering you bothers boys as well, such as 'why am i lonley'?, or why don't i have a girlfriend'? I think this feeling is only short term, anyway at least you got some friends.
2006-10-19 20:09:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You totally DON'T have to have a boy friend. listen to me in 17 and i have had plenty of them. I'm in a relationship with a guy and have been for a year and a half, most of the people we talk to know me as "his" Girl friend. i often find myself wishing i was single and could just focus on school. As for your "so called" friends, if they were really ur friends they would support you in whatever you felt was right for you and not bring you down for not having a boyfriend.
2006-10-19 20:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by Brandie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now im currently single and just came out of a vere different relationship and i feel the same way well if you need any more help or just someont to talk to e-mail me at munkyluver44@yahoo.com good luck.
2006-10-19 20:01:16 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GURL U NEED TO GET A CLUE! HAVING A BF IS A LUXURY NOT AN ESSENTIAL IN LIFE. I MEAN OF COURSE IT IS WONDERFUL TO HAVE SOMEONE TO FEEL U UP AND NIBBLE ON YOUR NECK BUT DONT LET NOT HAVING A BF BRING U DOWN. THE RIGHT ONE WILL COME ALONG SOON. WHEN U LEAST EXPECT IT.
2006-10-19 20:02:52 · answer #5 · answered by aquablueberrie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get a hobby then join a club about it. You'll meet people who like the same things you do then.
2006-10-19 20:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they only talk about their bf... they need to talk about more than just a their bf. if you would like a bf so much just go out somewhere, like the mall and flirt around. or do something else that you enjoy.
2006-10-19 20:04:22 · answer #7 · answered by stapler and coffee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personallt I think you should remain single and lean how to spell..... at least how to use the spell check
2006-10-19 20:01:04 · answer #8 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋