ok for the last 2 weeks my boyfriend has been such an asshole. he hasnt said i love you or i miss you for a while either. im starting to worry that he doesnt love me anymore & wants 2 break up.he hasnt told me why hes been like this. for some reason all he says is whatever, nevermind, i dont know, & nothing. & its getting ridiculous!!! i mean this is retarded. usually hes a sweetheart & a sexy baby. but in the last 2 weeks he hasnt been happy. we've been fighting more & he doesnt say i love u 2 me unless i say it first. is this normal? why is he like this??? im so confused!!!! is this a sign of cheating or wanting to break up? he says he doesnt wanna break up but idk wat 2 think/do/believe anymore!!!! HELP PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-19 12:57:15 · 22 answers · asked by inlovebabe1591 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all i think he mite be cheating because its a long distance relationship. 7 secondly he lives in texas & im in jersey
2006-10-19 13:09:59 · update #1
You need to have a serious conversation with him. Tell him you don't like his attitude and that if he doesn't change or explain his ways you're leaving him.
2006-10-19 12:59:25 · answer #1 · answered by finesthaitian 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well inlovebab, there are a lot of maybe's and but's. I'm not gonna start writting them cause you allready know them.What you have to do is not to give up.You need to sat him down and talk really serious.Ask him strait everything is on your mind.No detours!!! If he's answers are the same just ask him straight : Do you want to brake up? U'll be hurt but it's better to be hurt once than for a long time from now on.And don't worry u'll get over it.Think good, don't give up, and U'll feel better. Best regards >>>Great Duke Of Segorean
2006-10-19 20:04:26 · answer #2 · answered by DUKE OF SEGOREAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to talk to him. He might be having problems at work etc. Also, sometimes guys get bored of the ordinary and the same routine. Try something different, wear sexy clothes, make him a nice dinner. Show him that you love him anyways. See what happens. If he is cheating he will tell you sooner or later. But i dont think this is the case. Overall, guys are weird. :)
Good luck
2006-10-19 20:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by sandy02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for what is happening to you, And I am also sorry that he turned out to be a total waste of your time, But he has found someone else and you will have to suffer for it. This may sound cruel but the only help you need right now is to hurry up and get over him and still remain intact. I try telling young ladies that sometime it worth the wait and when they don't listen the and the pain comes and it seems to last forever. I hope that is not the case with you............. Again I wish you well and good luck in finding someone that will have more respect for love and stick it out................................ Please remember this he had a good thing and left it, Never allow him back into your life again.
2006-10-19 20:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably wants out of the relationship but doesnt know how to tell u without hurting you.Take it from a guy.Sometimes we are cowards when it comes to things like that. Been there,done that.Y dont u suggest a little time away from \each other and c where it goes.If he doesnt call u then u should probably figure it out.Good luck.
2006-10-19 20:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by bundyal38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are sometimes just as complicated as girls are. Just give him sometime to think. Things may be getting more serious than he expected and that might be scaring him. I know it will be hard but just give him a few days by himself don't call him. If he has cell phone maybe just send him a text message letting him know you care but other wise just let him be for a little while and after about 2-3 days if things havn't changed you need to put your foot down and tell him he needs to say whats up.
2006-10-19 20:03:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried telling him how you feel about his attitude/behavior as of late? Don't be accusatory, just tell him that you have noticed that he seems distant and in a bad mood lately and you would like to honestly know what is going on. He could be going through some stuff that is really bothering him and is waiting for an invite to talk about it....you just have ask. Good luck!
2006-10-19 20:00:37 · answer #7 · answered by Scott T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't really know what to tell you other than to talk to him about it. If he says he doesn't want to break up and nothing is wrong. Than maybe he's telling the truth. Sometimes guys just aren't as mushy as us. But on the other hand that doesn't mean he's not seeing someone else too. Maybe just stop telling him you love him and give him some space and just see what happens. I wish you the best, and good luck!
2006-10-19 20:00:32 · answer #8 · answered by Looking For Help 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, give him space as was previously mentioned. If he's going through something, constantly asking him what's wrong is NOT going to help. Take this time to do things for YOU. When he's ready he'll come to you and be just as loving as he was before. Believe me, he'll appreciate the time to figure out whatever is bothering him.
2006-10-19 20:15:53 · answer #9 · answered by Ree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds to me like you are over-thinking it .... If a guy says he doesn't want to break up, then he doesn't want to break up. End of story .. then we get back to watching the game.
NOW, can you tell me why you jump to the conclusion that he is cheating? You don't offer ANY evidence of that what so ever .. therefore as far as I am concerned you are making this up in your head. Why do you do this to yourself? Why do you do this to him?
YOU (not him) seem to be making this issue 50 times worse than it is.
2006-10-19 20:02:41 · answer #10 · answered by ValleyR 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long term relationships can be very difficult.
Is it fair to expect him to be celibate for a long period of time. How long have you been apart? How long before you meet again?
It's not really a relationship if you are not spending time with each other. Try to make allowances for him being very lonely.
He could be missing you very badly, but he still has a life to lead.
2006-10-19 20:21:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋