Well I approached her for the third time yesterday. She was in the halls like every other time I've seen her. I asked her where she was headed next. She told me "Bio" I said oh what teacher, she said "Mitchell" I told her I hated that guy she agreed. Afterward I asked her if she had a locker partner. I figured this might be a good way to get to know her. So I asked. She said she already had one. Then I told her I have like 4 guys using my locker and I've already lost 2 books, "My Story =)"
Anyways. She's friends with my sister. The funny part. She doesn't know I'm her brother. Today she was talkin to my sister and told her about me. She brought up in a convo that some dude she didn't know wanted to share lockers with her.
Now I don't know where I stand. This is where I can use some help. Obviously lots of it... I don't know if I'm coming onto her with a creepy approach.
2006-10-19 12:55:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm thinking she may have brought it up with her friends to see if they would say "He probably likes you." Or maybe stuff like " That's weird, he's prolly weird"
You know maybe trying to get their input.
2006-10-19 12:58:00 · update #1
Have your sister talk about you, maybe knowing your her brother will help her feel more secure. Maybe you can hang out with your sis and her introduce you. try not come on too strong.
2006-10-19 13:00:58 · answer #1 · answered by vbeaver31 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, well, you need to take it slowly. if theres one thing any girl hates in a guy its the clingy wont-leave-you-alone or give you space attitude. so stick with small talk. sooner or later, itll transform into convorsations that matter. also, having ur sister and her be friends is pretty good. you could try and see if your sister will pull the secret admirerer act. maybe write notes for her to give to ur crush. see where it goes from there. tell ur sister that ur crush can answer the note, then give it to her and she'll give the note to u. it may work. just give it time and dont be pushy. be nice and know ur place. let magic do the rest. <3
2006-10-19 20:02:59 · answer #2 · answered by Bohemo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think it might be a little creepy, You should try being a little more subtle. Also tell your sister about her, so then she can give you the 411 on what she thinks of you. Get to know her through your sister, and also she can get to know you through her too. You actually have a great advantage here. Good luck!
2006-10-19 20:02:37 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah j 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girls like guys who can just be themselves around them. Next time you see her tell her that your sister is her friend. Then ask her if she would like to maybe go see a movie or something friendly like that. see what her answer is. the only way to know is by asking.
2006-10-19 19:59:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is no creepy approach... she mentions u becuz she now thinks tht u r important! its a gud sign ... hold up the conversacions 4 a bit.. it will turn up gud cuz then she will finally start tlking to u... gud luk! girls jus hav tht starting problem but after that they r well on their way! gud luk!
2006-10-19 19:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by prabhat v 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell either. It could go either way. Just be yourself, and if you're coming off as creepy, you will probably start picking up some cues...
2006-10-19 19:58:58 · answer #6 · answered by ixi26c 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah you probably scared her a bit...if you like her you probably shouldnt act that way....most girls liike when a guy comes str8 up to them and ask them out....but i think what you should do is tell her that you would like to get to know her, instead of making up these weird convos. then if she askes you why you want to get to know her, you tell her that you like her and that shes cute.
2006-10-19 20:05:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you just might, maybe you should slow down a bit and take things from there.
2006-10-19 19:58:23 · answer #8 · answered by metalchik 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋