My boyfriend says that ANYTIME a guy talks to a girl, it's because he likes them. He says that any friend that a guy has that is a girl, he liked at one point in time. Basically, a guy gains his girl friends because he liked them. Is this true??
2006-10-19 12:51:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know how old you and your boyfriend are but it certainly sounds pretty juvenile. Either that or he has large jealousy issues. Regardless I speak with other women and my fiance also speaks with other males and neither of us gets upset as long as it's all innocent. But I remember also being younger and ever at that time had people of the opposite sex that I would converse with. That's what the world is made up of, two diffferent sexes and that's how we learn about each other by talking.
2006-10-19 12:56:51 · answer #1 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i have a lot of girls that are friends only. Guys talk to girls because they can. Very few guys can talk to other guys about romance or falling in love or **** like that. Plus girls are great listener and for the most part care about what you are saying. To me it sounds like you boyfriend doesn't want you to talk to other guys. So he create an alternative reason why guys are talking to you. That doesn't mean all guys are looking for conversation, for the most part we are still pigs. lol
2006-10-19 20:03:41 · answer #2 · answered by Fangs_4u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not think thats true - and I know this question is for guys, but I have plenty of guy friends and its not like that, they are like my brothers to me and im like a sister to them, your boyfriend is just being insecure and does not trust you, and if he gives you the line its not you i dont trust its them - its the same thing as not trusting you. Tell him to deal with you having friends or get a new man that can.
2006-10-19 19:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by teresawol 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfrind hes a dummy...u mean to tell me that noone of the opposite sex is suppose to tal kto the other ever???? thats the dumbest thing i ever heard. I have male friends more than female friends,,,doesnt mean i like them or even liked them more than a friend.....my man has female friends also....your boyfriend must be very immature because he really has no clue what hes talking about.
2006-10-19 19:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by michelle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be with some guys, but not all guys. I have a number of friends who are girls who I've never liked in that way.
2006-10-19 19:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by The Link 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does your boyfriend live in the stoneage? Men and women CAN have platonic relationships! Ask my wife,lol. just kidding.Seriously tho,just cause u talk to someone dont mean u want to get em in bed.Tell him to open his eyes up.Didnt he have any female friends b 4 hr started puberty??
2006-10-19 19:56:29 · answer #6 · answered by bundyal38 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yup he's telling the truth.. boys don't talk to girls jus because they wanna b frnds wit them...like girls do... its becuz they want a relationship out of it... u wudn't b surprised to know tht most boyz like their best frnd wich is a girl in most cases... its jus boyz and their way...
2006-10-19 19:54:20 · answer #7 · answered by prabhat v 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is then I have a TON of girls that I never knew I liked before.
2006-10-19 19:54:11 · answer #8 · answered by aa88_game 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFINITELY TRUE!
Because men has a childish part, it is such kind of a game (for men especially younger)
2006-10-19 19:56:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's often true but not always true. i'm not attracted to overweight girls, but i had a good friend who was fat. she was really funny and we both enjoyed hanging out together. so, there goes your boyfriend's theory. .....
2006-10-19 19:54:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋