i love this girl to death. and we dated for 2 years. everything was going really great. i mean shes perfect shes nice,sweet,kind,cute,we have alot in common and her mom and dad likes me and my mom and dad likes her (they never liked anyone esle that i dated). u know perfect. and everythign seemed like a dream. but....heres the deal.she moved and we both hate long ditance relationships but we tryed to make it work.it was going good but.... after bout 3 weeks we stoped talking alot. we emailed eachother everynow and again but thats it.and there is this girl at my school that i like and she has a cursh on me. i was thinking bout going with her so i can have someone i can see everyday. but i really want things work with me and my gf.i dont want things to end but it looks like it is...i tryed to get over her but shes just perpect. what should i do?
2006-10-19 12:41:28 · 14 answers · asked by countryman 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know what you have to do!!! If she means that much to you either you go to her or ask her to move in with you!!! If you are not willing to travel (often) to her or move closer to her and she's not willing to move in with you then it is not meant to be!!! Good luck!! OH YEA as far as the other girl with the crush on you --- It would only be fair to let her know how you really feel!!! If you're going with her just because she's close you're CHEATING on the other and cheating her of the relationship she's looking for!!!
2006-10-19 12:50:32 · answer #1 · answered by xxx69forall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is difficult but a good question. Well I would say to ask her in a email message if the relationship is the same and at the same heights as it was before. She should give you a answer. If she doesn't give you a answer then she may be ashamed to admit defeat. Cause if you get the other girl without doing something to confront her about it she may find out or come back and then you will someone when she waited on you and that would hurt her.
2006-10-19 19:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by high_metamorph 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
this sounds like your first love, hold it in your mind forever, but if there is no way her parents are coming back then realize that there are going to be a lot of girls you are going to like. some even more, long distance does not work almost all the time. you sound young and you have a whole lot of life and love ahead of you. you will meet lots of women that you are really going to love, and one day you will find the one for you. dont fell trapped because of a long distance thing, enjoy yourself and have fun. keep looking, the right one at the right time really does work out. one day when your as old as me your wife will ask you who was your first love, and she will be in your mind. remember but life dude. good luck.
2006-10-19 19:55:11 · answer #3 · answered by donna r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its possible, move to be with her.
You need to fully evaluate the situation and decide if she's worth waiting for. How long are you two going to be apart? You can't live your whole life away from her if you're in a relationship. It would probably be a better idea to date someone else. Hard, but easier on you emotionally.
2006-10-19 19:44:50 · answer #4 · answered by JayEmmBee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the girl you can see everyday. When you are able to move to where the other girl is after time pass by and you still feel the same way.
2006-10-19 19:48:38 · answer #5 · answered by barbie2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for me! long distance relationships never worked for me..so i dumped the person i was with and moved on in life. I can assure you that there are other"perfect" girls out there looking for a "perfect guy like you". you just need to follow your heart and you will end up were you need to be. wether its with a diffrent girl or the one your seeing now.
2006-10-19 19:48:42 · answer #6 · answered by ~*$*Carrie Bear*$*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Another young love question...Damn I feel lucky that I haven't had to put up with this...
Anyway... Have you tried to find a way to see her alot more? Your current g/f...
And webcams are a marvelous thing... Try one with her... and if she don't have one... send her one...
And with your crush, you ought to try and hold off on her until you are sure that you can't do nothing to go and see your g/f, and if she breaks up with you (I really hope she doesn't)... But if your parents like her, and hers like you, than there should be someway to beable to see her alot more often...
I wish you the best of luck... I really do...
2006-10-19 19:49:33 · answer #7 · answered by Shadow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you and your girlfriend is not working out and you need 2 break it off with her because you should be able to see your gf and talk 2 her all the time so go out with the girl at school
2006-10-19 19:45:18 · answer #8 · answered by num1lovagurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that now is the time to turn to drugs
I’m sure that this question been asked and answered like 500 times already? Why do we have to endure reading these repetitive recycled moronic questions? Is there some contest going on to see how many times the Answers community can ask the same idiotic question?
2006-10-19 19:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by drsteve362005 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you under 25 see other people if your over find out what can make it work or keep busy
2006-10-19 20:13:23 · answer #10 · answered by Still_21_nheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋