since the honeymoon will surely WEAR OFF after 6 months ( as it is know to do )?

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and then you will both have to be creative and generate LOVE in the relationship - really what difference does it make who you are with?????

Either way you will have to create something from nothing with your beloved to make it the bliss you both wish it to be and that first meeting and six month honeymoon will be history!

Answer 1

Good question! I reckon you are dead right. I went out with a person who I wasn't really attracted to so there never was a honeymoon period but his persistence and friendship won me over in the end as I found out how great he was. His effort eventually made me fall in love with him. That was ten years ago.

Answer 2

I don't think it turns into "nothing" after 6 months. You still have a history, memories, and are hopefully still physically attracted to the person. You surely have more to work with than 2 complete strangers would. Plus, the feelings come back in phases - it's not like they're gone forever.

Answer 3

The honeymoon stage varies with all different relationships we are involved in. So after it has worn off is when the real work begins in relationships and when you truly get to know each other's faults and frailties.

Answer 4

Communication is important, as is understanding how women and men differ in general. I highly suggest reading the book: Men are from Mars; Women are from Venus.

If you work hard at a successful marriage, you will find that you will form a bond with your wife that far surpasses anything you encountered while single.

Answer 5

I've been with my guy for 12 years and it's still going strong. But you are right, you have to put the other person first and not just think about how hot he is.