I met this guy i like, weve been talking on the phone for a while but he hasnt asked me out.Our mutual friend told me that he is shy and thats propably why, what can i do / say ??
2006-10-19 12:19:35 · 9 answers · asked by nyc88m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask him out if u like him
2006-10-19 12:21:16 · answer #1 · answered by Yahoo! User 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be understanding, show you are interested in him and try to encourage him to speak a bit more. If there are some awkward silences, don't give up - keep talking.
Normally I am very much a "listerner". I will get people to open up and talk about themselves but in cases where the woman is shy, I compensate by talking a lot more than I would normally do (but not so much about myself). It's a good way of making them feel involved.
2006-10-19 12:23:17 · answer #2 · answered by The boy from London 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is hard to make girl move out the first step, he is shy, u cannot change that in one second.
So, two ideas 4 u
1. be the first one ask him out
2. ask your friend to do it ( by telling him, what he support to do with a girl) like date.....
Or, u can pretending, say u have too many free time, u are boring, u want to go out, hang around. If he still doesnot get it. Tell him u have few tickets from friends.......
If still not work, give me his phone number, I help u, wake him up.
If still not work, I think u better find another boy. This guy is so stupid....after all.
Good Luck!!!!!
2006-10-19 12:25:13 · answer #3 · answered by KAREN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really interested in you he'll ask you. Please whatever you do DON'T ask him out. Guys don't like pushy girls. When he's ready he'll ask you out on a date trust me. Meanwhile, focus on yourself. Hang out with you girlfriends. He'll notice that you aren't one of those needy girls. If you ask him out he may or may not say yes. It's not worth the risk. Just stay cool.
2006-10-19 12:26:59 · answer #4 · answered by Inez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
shy people like the other person to make the first steeps.
2006-10-19 12:23:24 · answer #5 · answered by chris 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out.
2006-10-19 12:20:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not comfortable with the company he is keeping then there is nothing you can do for him to make it so, and I do mean nothing............. He may have to find his own niche in life and go from there..........
2006-10-19 12:23:10 · answer #7 · answered by kilroymaster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your shy
2006-10-19 12:22:38 · answer #8 · answered by kayef57 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take charge woman
2006-10-19 12:21:33 · answer #9 · answered by swingorstrikeout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋