why do you only care about looks,why would you judge someone by the why they look.I mean you say you don't but you do,that's all I see on here,especially when It comes to cena.you don't know a person but you say they are a good person because you like the way they look,why.this is somthing I have wondered about for a long time.
2006-10-19 12:14:59 · 25 answers · asked by steeler nation!!!!!!! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
please don't assume all of us girls only care about looks.
sure, you have to be physically attracted to someone if you're going to date them, and yes it is nice to have a guy that is very attractive, but for me looks are entirely secondary. I've said this so many times: I'd choose a guy who was mediocre looking but was honest, respected me, and liked me for who I am then a guy who was a hottie but was a stupid jerk.
It's that simple for me... I'm not into the typical "hotties" anyway. Some girls are just shallow enough they judge a guy based on his looks. I look at personality and how they treat other people.
2006-10-19 12:21:11 · answer #1 · answered by Green-eyed Nikki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth most of us sometimes do say for some reason we want a nice guy who knows how to treat a gril but it isn't always true. Maybe its because good looking guys have gone out more often and from that you know girls can ask other girls like hows that guy and stuff. Most of us really don't care how a guy looks but it feels more secure to date a guy who people know more because you already know a lot about them through other people even before you date him. In most cases those are popular guys sadly. Sometimes people do it for the reputation or the popularity. In other cases, however, it's more for security purposes.I don't know that much becasue every women is different but I do know is if that women only likes you for the way you look it's not worth it. I know I'm a women myself, and I can tell you why some girls go upon only looks(to show their man off) but some guys may not be the best looking but I bet they have something more than the others. And women need to appreciate that.
2006-10-19 19:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by dm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hopefully you don't look at all us ladies like that.. Cuz trust me.. with me it isn't all about looks... I always take the time to look at the person for who they are inside.. I am usually friends with someone first before we date or whatever!!! I think that you personally need to be attacted to the person inside and out too becuz then you sit across the room and you glare at each other in hopes of what could happen when you get home.. If this person is butt ugly and no personality that would suck.. it is a personality that will bring out the glow in the person and make them attactive too..
2006-10-19 19:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats because only the guys with good looks approach a woman confidently. The not good looking guys just think they are not good enough and back off and start whining without trying.
When men look for good looking women then why shouldn't women go for good looking men?
Cena is not good looking. I'm a wrestling fan too.
But I like Stone Cold Steve Austin
2006-10-19 19:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mr Business 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say that looks are the most important attribute, but it is something that draws you to someone before you actually get to know them better. It's more than looks. It's chemistry, intelligence, morality, goals. Looks attract at first, but it's the other stuff that determines if it's going to stick.
I never say someone is a good person if I don't mean it. Not everyone is that shallow.
Why are good looks an attractor? It all boils down to DNA wanting to reproduce - all boils down to sex. If you find someone attractive, you're going to want to mate with them - it's biology.
2006-10-19 19:22:43 · answer #5 · answered by Sirena 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't judge a book by it;s cover..but lets keep it real you are attracted to different people, that doesn't make you shallow or nothing.....the best thing I can say for you is beauty is in the eye of the beholder
2006-10-19 19:28:36 · answer #6 · answered by queenmeplse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when u look at someone for the first time u dont see their personality . so their looks is the first impression. so if u like their style u interested in getting to know who they really are. cause even if they are sexy but got a stank attitude thats a turn-off . at the same time u still want to be physically attracted not just emotionally!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-19 19:22:49 · answer #7 · answered by alexandrealascelles 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Do all guys think that about us girls? Just wondering. I always go for personality. This guy I really like (one of my best friends) is a really nice and funny guy. I love hanging out with him. All my friends say he's ugly though!!! He's not ugly, just not super cute like they want their guys! Jeez. Anyway, most of the guys I like aren't that cute, but have the cutest/best/funniest/awesome personallity!!! =]
2006-10-19 19:21:18 · answer #8 · answered by Michi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't only care about looks. They are a factor, but certainly not a major one. I'd care about personality the most if I cared about guys at all. (I don't. Really.)
2006-10-19 19:50:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are making a huge mistake by thinking all women feel this way. Perhaps what you have stated is true for many ladies, but it is not true for all. Please learn to look at people as individuals instead of all this generalizing.
2006-10-19 19:20:59 · answer #10 · answered by Bethany 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋