my ex john saw me and my new bf earl at our date last night and freaked out!!! he denied being jealous and mad because i was there!! John knew i was going to move on because he whouldn't ask me out again!!! now he's not talking to me or earl because he knows he's jealous!!!! Earl was his friend until john found out we where dating!!! I flirt non stop with my new bf right in front of john but he dosen't say anything!!! how can i get him to talk to me again and earl too!!??!?!?
plz help!!
Kelse
2006-10-19 11:55:50 · 10 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's hurt, IF by chance he decides to talk to you... its going to be by his own doing... you cant get him to talk to you; he'll do it on his own, just give him time.
2006-10-19 11:58:08 · answer #1 · answered by llsoinlovell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh jeez I have that problem, but I'm not going out with this best friend. I just try to have like TINY conversations with him. Like a couple phrases, really. The other day he talked to me for a split second. It was like "Did you change lockers?" and I said "Yeah, the other one kept jamming." and then in between classes I just try to say little things. Anyway, if he's a nice guy, he'll talk to you in 2 or more weeks, if not... GOOD LUCK THERE. Your best bet would be to break up with Earl and trying to just be friends with both of them.
2006-10-19 19:08:31 · answer #2 · answered by Michi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really want John to talk to you and Earl or you wouldn't "flirt nonstop" with your new bf right in front of John. C'mon, get serious!
2006-10-19 19:02:08 · answer #3 · answered by MyPreshus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What could possibly make you think that flirting with your new boyfriend in front of him would make him want to talk to you? That's probably the most ridiculous thing I've ever heard. Think about it from your perspective. Would you want him throwing that back in your face? Time is the best thing for situations like this. I would avoid contact with him until he wants to talk to you.
P.S. It sounds like you haven't quite moved on yourself and sort-of take a little bit of pleasure from making him miserable.
2006-10-19 19:05:47 · answer #4 · answered by Blake H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright hun i can fix this i had the same relationship once look him in the eyes don't smile or laugh just look like you mean it and say "look we are over an i'm with someone else you need to leave me alone and fine someone Else's life to ruin leave me alone we over and have always been i found someone else " then push him and walk away make sure you call earl and apoliigize for leaving you mite wanna say it and practice in the mirror
2006-10-19 19:03:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop shoving it in his FACE for one!
Another well ex's dont make good friends...
Once Earl and you break it off you will be forgotten by the both of them....
fact of life they will still be friends later and share stories of you!
2006-10-19 19:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Angelus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hurt, badly. He didn't relize you'd actually move on. You should write him a note telling him that you want to talk to me.
2006-10-19 19:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move to different city and you don't have the problem anymore.
How to make people to talk to each other if they hate each other.
Impossible.
2006-10-19 19:00:37 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do you even care, it sounds to me like he's the one whos moved on, not u
2006-10-19 18:58:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have a heart....girls hurt guys,,,,,and guys hurt girls
2006-10-19 19:14:57 · answer #10 · answered by romance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋