My ex boyfriend contacted me on msn today and I was surprised cuz we haven't spoken in 4 months. He use to say hi to me after he ended it , but he stopped that. That's why I was sooo surprised when he said hi today. We only dated for one month, he ended it 8 months ago saying he was "busy" and it was so innocent, only kissing, cuz he knows I wanna save sex for marriage, so why does he still care? Neways guys, WHY do you so this to your ex-girlfriends? I mean you dump a girl, so why do you contact her later and ask all these nosy questions? My ex was so nosy when he said hi, asking me all these questions, especially about what I wanted to do after university. But what did he REALLY want to know?
I know some may say he was just saying hi to be friendly or was just curious, but WHY is he still trying to be nice or why does he still care what goes on in my life? Guys are soooo weird, they dump a girl, but still wanna know what goes on in her life, WHY??????
2006-10-19 11:47:18 · 13 answers · asked by sweet kisses 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he may have found a girl after you that would have sex with him but there was nothing else and now thinks he can get back together with you for a little while. Men are retarded. He's just trying to find out if you have a new man in your life. His loss! Some guys just don't want to wait to get married to have sex a base a whole relationship on having it. Find yourself a guy who respects ALL things about you and doesn't look for a chick who'll give it up to satisfy his needs. Tell him to buzz off. He had his moment and blew it. ask him why he cares anyway then tell him you have girlfriend's to chat with about your plans. Thanks and bye!
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2006-10-19 11:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Baby girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! Guys are looney tunes man!! He is just making sure his foot is still in the door. If he wants back in he wants to know that the door isn't locked thats all. He's probably not seeing anyone right now or he is ending something else and just checking the options. What a punk. Take him off your msn. He is totally shoppin and you seem to be someone with a crap load more integrity then he could ever have.
2006-10-19 11:54:11 · answer #2 · answered by lbacig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him this. Ask him why he is now talking to you after all this time, what he wants from you etc..If it is friendship and if you still like him go for it who knows what can develope between friends down the road.
2006-10-19 11:51:42 · answer #3 · answered by sammy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
about what you wanted to after university..... what the hell does that mean? how old are you? and hes saying hi because he liked you and is curious how your life is. its only human to have conversation. you're making a big deal about it because you still like the kid....
2006-10-19 11:55:21 · answer #4 · answered by shektor9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first guess would be that he is still attracted to you. Not enough to want to wait till marriage for sex but he still finds you attractive.
2006-10-19 11:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by The boy from London 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they do always want to know what's up after they break it off, don't they? Haven't met one yet that didn't regret leaving me. I would love to know the answer too.
2006-10-19 11:50:19 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, he missed his chance. he dumped you once. people dont change. its likely thats just the kind of guy he is. you dont want to go thru that over and over again. move on.
2006-10-19 11:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because,He doesn't know what he wants exactly.He is not sure his feelings.Probably,he didn't find whatever he wanted and wants to retry with you...
2006-10-19 11:59:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can smell that u still interested in that guy, i think u r weird not guys!
2006-10-19 11:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by happy_84 k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he did it to see if you where still thinking about him
2006-10-19 11:50:05 · answer #10 · answered by Dr shiznet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋