Is it okay to forgive your fiancée if he admits that he hooked up once with another woman because he misses you badly and because of needs as a man?
I have a long distance relationship with my current boyfriend. I live and work here in CA and he is from the Phils. We have been together as boyfriend/girlfriend for almost 3 years but we are friends for 10 years total. We have an age gap of 12 years and planning to settle down for next year. Because of my strict religion practice and culture, honestly we never make love as normal partners do. We do kissing and hugging but for almost 3 years we have not come that far. I am proud to say that at the age of 29 I am still pure and never had any experienced at all. My boyfriend told me that he could wait and he respected me so much which I am so happy to hear. Recently, he admitted to me that because of his needs as a man, he was so weak to hook up with another woman. He does not want to do that to me that’s why he did it with another.
2006-10-19 11:36:51 · 6 answers · asked by sweetie08 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No way! It's not okay. He cheated because he misses you and because he has needs as a man? That's ridiculous. Kick his butt to the curb! There's never a good excuse to be a cheater. And if you take him back, it just gives him an excuse to do it again.
And by the way, good for you for still being a virgin. Stick to your morals and values!
2006-10-19 11:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by texas y'all! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah all the reasons and other stuff is just bull$hit.
The fact is he cheated on you. That is how much he respects you and your beliefs.
And come on, a 29 year old virgin? When do you stop being called a virgin and become an old maid?
Sorry to hear that your finace CHEATED on you but that is what happened. If you forgive him he will do it again.
Been there done that!
2006-10-19 11:46:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sigh............ First rule of any dating; If have faith can't be standard, stroll away. he's already lied to you, he's merely utilising you, you are able to no longer have faith him, I propose heavily what greater do you may desire to finally say "hi dude i such as you yet i can't try this anymore" he's already shown how significant marriage is to him, in case you began dating mere months after his wedding ceremony. I say get far flung from him ASAP and locate somebody who will relatively love you and somebody you are able to have faith. Mark my words in case you reside with him, you will sense sorry approximately it, you will land up getting pregnant, he will bail and you'd be left on my own. Then i would be compelled to music you down, locate you, and slap you for no longer listening. =)
2016-11-23 20:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats terrible!!!! If my fiancee did that , he'd be history!!!!! It only takes once...He blew it!!!!!! If you let him off the hook now he will keep on doing it over and over ......get rid of him!!!!!!
2006-10-19 11:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is BSing you. you have the same needs he has. if he is not stronger than the urges, he is not a good enough man for you.
2006-10-19 11:40:35 · answer #5 · answered by tigweldkat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only if u want him to do it again
2006-10-19 11:38:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋