I was sleeping not so long ago with a bloke who had a girlfriend! I was with him before he got this girlfiend!That is no excuse for what i did! Now he has called the whole casual sex arrangement off as he carnt risk the bird finding out! I feel used and want to get back at him! Should i get hi in **** and tell hes bird what a cheating rat he is???
2006-10-19 11:36:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her how u had him so much before but now your just friends,and say your so glad how hes finally settling down, and she will say we've been together for a long while , and say oh he didnt mention anything about a girlfriend sorry.you should find a new hotter lover and make sure he and she see's u with him all around town, so when the ex calls, u can say no i cant risk losing him, he's so much greater at everything especially in bed. make him feel unwanted.
2006-10-19 16:27:01 · answer #1 · answered by nicky l 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I Would Definitely Tell The New Girlfriend, However She Might Not Believe You.
Some Ladies Just Think You Are Trying To Break Up Their Relationships.
So Tell Her Just Do It Tastefully So It Doesn't Look Like You Are A Jealous Ex, Which You Kinda Are.
2006-10-19 11:43:14 · answer #2 · answered by Paradise * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way. Don't kid yourself that you have concern for his new girlfriend and want her to find out what a rat he is. You're not interested in that...you just want to get back at him because he's broken it off with you. You've slept with her boyfriend behind her back...but she's done nothing to you, and it's her who would end up the most hurt if you confess, not him.
Don't think of yourself as the loser in this - you've escaped from a cheating scumbag so leave him to it and be grateful he's out of your life so you can find someone far more special than him to spend it with.
2006-10-19 11:51:07 · answer #3 · answered by Les 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whos worse?
him for cheating and realising that he was wrong - and stopping
you allowing him to cheat but now getting on your high horse cos hes doing the right thing.
it seems that you are guilty for what you did, which is right, but are unable to get get closure on the situation like hes has.unfortunatly you are going to miss out.
just one last thing though, if the shoe was on the other foot how would you expect/want him to act.
2006-10-19 12:18:42 · answer #4 · answered by aberdeen302004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hells yea! i mean he knew the whole situation when it was happening and he shouldnt have done what he did. If you dont teach him a lesson then he will think hes untouchable when it comes to cheating like that!! You need to F him over SeRiOuSlY!!!
2006-10-19 11:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by confused_mexican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea she doesn't deserve to be treated like that either, tell her but you may get a slap.
calum b is obviously a bloke that thinks this boyfriend can get away with cheating.
2006-10-19 11:40:04 · answer #6 · answered by muffinplattsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on.
It was casual sex for Allah's sake, you didn't get a STD, HIV or Hepatitus did you.
Perhaps if you improved your bedroom technique he would have been too knackered to look elsewhere.
2006-10-19 12:00:46 · answer #7 · answered by "Call me Dave" 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally luv! if that happened to me id piss all over his best clothes and get my cat to spray up his bed post so he would smell it for weeks and weeks and not beable to do anything about it!!
(wouldnt really, i'm not that insane)
but i honestly do think u should tell the girl in all honesty, sit her down and chat like ur mates.
luv Alice in Wonderland
2006-10-19 11:45:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a tough one!! I can so understand how you want to react, but is it fair to tell the bird about you & him...? It will only make you look bad, and that's not what you want... If would verbally take him down in public, but in a way that only you and him know what you mean... he will want to kill himself! Make him look as stupid and useless as he is... You won't gain anything but disrespect if you hurt her...
2006-10-19 11:43:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope you shouldn't. You just wait till his 'bird' aint putting out anymore and then call the shots! Yeah'but'no but yea'but - this time ............. no calling off after!
2006-10-19 11:41:25 · answer #10 · answered by madbrew2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋