im going out with this one guy and i really like him but im not allowed to date till im 16(im 14) and i also like one other of my best friends and idk what to do i think i love both of em, i know i might be young to love but iv said i love u to aloot of ppl and i relly think i do love em idk what to do!
2006-10-19 11:24:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
honestly, this is confusing, but forget about both of them. u are a little to young but if its what you want go for it. dont stick just with one guy, there are plenty more guys out there. if u cant 4get about them, ask urslef these questions:
1. does he act like himself around you?
2. when his friends come with, is he not afraid to hold ur hand and say i love you?
3. which one has a better personality?
4. who do you think would be best for you?
you could just write down a list with pros and cons for both of them, that will totally make you see who is best for you. good luck :)
2006-10-19 11:29:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all know that at 14 you still have MANY LOVES to come. One of these guys might be your "first love", but if you say you "love them both" then you aren't "in love" with them.
You are 14 and these guys are probably totally hot in your eyes and they are good friends and they make you feel good about yourself. I have no doubt that what you think you are feeling is love... and you may love them, but you aren't IN LOVE with them.
There is a very big difference.
Are either of these guys asking you to date them or to be their
girlfriend?? If so, then talk to your parents and ask them about
chaparoned dating. Your parents love you and that is why they
dont want you to date. To many bad things happen to women of all ages these days. I know it sucks and it doesn't feel like it, but your parents have your best interest at heart. Talk to them.
Having a solution to a problem is something a mature person would do. So if you go to your parents and say something like
I know you dont want me to date, but I really like this boy and was wondering what you think about chaparoned dating.... that shows them that you are looking at this from a "big girl" point of view....not their "little girl".
Good luck.
2006-10-19 18:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a reason why your parents said you can not date until you are 16. At 14 you think everytime a boy shows interest in you, he loves you and if you think he is cute and nice you love him. All little boys care about is one thing, getting into your pants.
2006-10-19 18:28:33 · answer #3 · answered by Got2seeit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just a crush. It's not love. Kids think they're in love all the time.
2006-10-19 18:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You love both of them? Then you don't know what love is yet. Sounds to me like lust or infatuation.
2006-10-19 18:26:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you think its love but its lust,do u have a sharp pain on the left side of your belly
2006-10-19 18:30:34 · answer #6 · answered by t-crisis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nah you dont love either of them if you did you wouldnt love more than one person
2006-10-19 18:27:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep dating your guy don't screw up the relationship you have with your friend
2006-10-19 18:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋