ok there's 2 parts...how do you tell if a guy is uninterested or just SHY?
if he is shy, should i go ahead and make the first move?
please help!
2006-10-19 11:22:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go up to him, look him straight in the eye, pucker up and say, "Pucker up lovemuffin and give Mamma some sugar." If he turns bright red, he is shy. If he laughs in your face, he is disinterested. If he puckers up, you got yourself a hot prospect.
2006-10-19 11:28:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lots of guys are shy. If they are uninterested you will be able to tell very quickly. If they are shy they would appriciate a first move. Most guys are worried about rejection, hence the shyness. Worst case, you make a move and you find out they are not interested, but at least you know, right?
2006-10-19 18:28:50 · answer #2 · answered by clownzinc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its easy to tell if someone likes you by the way the look at you. If you see them stare into your eyes often it is usually a good indicator of whether or not they like you. Also, most guys are not that great at listening unless they really like you. Pay attention to his conversations with other people and if he doesn't seem as interested talking to them as he does you then you should know for sure. As for the second part, I would say that making the first move is a good idea. It sounds like you like him as well and things probably aren't going to take off unless you do something about it judging from what you say about how shy he is.
2006-10-19 18:30:23 · answer #3 · answered by Blake H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! Guys love it when a girl makes the first move, and if he is shy it will be like a dream come true for him to not have to put himself out there (if he likes you that is!)
As for how to tell, talk to his friends or get his number off someone else and do a little texty-flirty, its always a good indicator :)
2006-10-19 18:27:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's ignoring you, then he has no interest in you, if he smiles at you, and talks when you ask him a question, then he's just shy.
The best way to find out, is just to ask him out.
Seems the ball in in your court, if you want to get to know him better, then make the first move.
Even if it doesn't work, at least you will know for sure, what he thinks of you.
2006-10-19 18:28:02 · answer #5 · answered by johnb693 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be like "hey if you're not gonna make the first move, i'm gonna have to do it, or i'll have to find someone else. cause i aint waitin around forever, man. and i dont wanna make the first move, cause that means i'll always be making the first move, and later on in life, i'll be wondering if i pushed you into a relationship you didnt want to be in, and you will resent me cause i wont let you make any decisions and stuff, man. so, are you interested or not?"
2006-10-19 18:31:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...thats hard....if he's shy the only way i can think of is if he's staring at you from far away and for long periods of time then he likes you...hehe
But for sure, if he's shy....then go ahead and make the 1st move
2006-10-19 18:26:48 · answer #7 · answered by CrxK20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes in any circumstance, this is the 21st century. better to make the first move and know for sure , then to always wonder what if
2006-10-19 18:26:43 · answer #8 · answered by expat0171 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uninterested he won't bother talking to you, won't try to impress you, stuff like that. Shy, he'll still try to talk and impress.
2006-10-19 18:25:23 · answer #9 · answered by LearnFastPlease 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
may be hes not sure if you feel the same way, if you make the first move that might help
if a women made the first move on me I would LOVE it !!!
2006-10-19 18:35:32 · answer #10 · answered by Big R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋