I met this guy at a bar one night. We ended up spending the night together (not sex) and we exchanged numbers. The only problem is he knows I am seeing someone because we talked about it that night. I am not serious about the current guy and it will probably end in the next couple of weeks. Should I call this guy or just wait to see if he calls me?
2006-10-19 11:18:36 · 20 answers · asked by HEATHER M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn't call him unless he called you.
2006-10-19 11:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by Full Moon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's interested, he'll call. If he does, let him know that you would like to see him after you break up with the person you're seeing.
In the mean time, the person you're seeing deserves a lot better than being with someone who believes it's going nowhere. Let him go and give him the opportunity to be with someone who is into him. Do you think you're doing him a favor by keeping him around until something better comes along?
I can't imagine that you would want to be treated that way.
I wouldn't worry though. He's not likely to call, an intelligent guy would never involve himself with someone who invites so much drama in her life.
2006-10-19 18:24:42 · answer #2 · answered by Janet H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Under this kind of situation, I would probably say give him a ring in whenever you end what you're in now. Some guys won't make a move if they know that they could potentially wander into an odd situation. End what you have, give the guy a call and see what's up.
2006-10-19 18:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Robot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should first end your current relationship, because that's just wrong. But after that, I would give him a couple days to call. Play hard to get.
2006-10-19 18:21:22 · answer #4 · answered by 123123123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have no intention on persuing your current relationship, end it now. This other guy is irrelevant as far as that is concerned. So, as a free woman, you can then call up the other guy.
2006-10-19 18:21:11 · answer #5 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know your current relationship won't work out then end it now then call the other person.
It won't be fair to him or the other guy to be with someone who is involved (even if it's not emotionally) with someone else.
2006-10-19 18:26:44 · answer #6 · answered by solgiver 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will "'probably" end? Hmmm, THAT sounds definite...
If you are smart and only God knows if you are, you'll end things with guy #1, before you think about getting it on with guy #2.
2006-10-19 18:26:51 · answer #7 · answered by Jeff W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy hasent called you then take the chance to call him but make sure you do something with the current guy you are seeing
2006-10-19 18:21:01 · answer #8 · answered by fefi76229 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like him, call him. i would, however, end the relationship you are currently in before you do that. its not fair to the guy your seeing to string him along and initiate another relationship while he still thinks you two are in a monogomous relationship.
2006-10-19 18:23:28 · answer #9 · answered by jeff h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are the only one who has to look back at your life and be happy with it darlin. If you'll regret it, call him. Take your future in your own hands. Don't leave it to chance.
2006-10-19 18:22:22 · answer #10 · answered by lbacig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait to see if he calls you, test him this way, cuz hun if a guy really likes you HE will call you:)
2006-10-19 18:20:52 · answer #11 · answered by sweet kisses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋