Tommorow I am asking my friend out. I am really nervous because I never aked a guy out. Any ideas on what to say to him? Thanks
2006-10-19 11:05:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are gonna get a lot of answers here. Some will say you will appear to be easy. Ignore that. Any guy that thinks you are easy because you had the guts to ask him out isn't worth your time. And since this guy is your friend, you'd probably know that right? So it's like this: chances are he likes you, but doesn't know if he should make a move because very often women that aren't interested in a guy do the same things as women that are interested in a guy. He will appreciate you taking the guess work out of it for him. Just tell him why you like him and ask him to be your boyfriend. Simple as that.
2006-10-19 11:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask very casually, like it's not a big deal, or you could go for the super cutie approach and look at the ground with your hands behind your back and pointing your toe. Me personally I don't think I could resist if a girl did all that, but that's just me :-p. If you know you'll have a good time with the person shoot for a dinner date. If you're unsure ask him out for coffee if it's going well you can just sit and talk, if not finish your coffee then make like a banana and get outta there :-)
2006-10-19 18:10:22 · answer #2 · answered by Alberto R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just b urself adn act cool. its not that common 4 a girl to ask a guy out, but i think its fine. all teh bettter 4 u cuz if hes nice and likes u he wont say no, especially since ur goin through the trouble to ask him out good luck hope u two work out
:)
2006-10-19 18:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by blank 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most guys have probably never been asked out buy a woman. so just be plain and simple - would you like to go on a date sometime? i'm sure he will say yes. good luck.
2006-10-19 18:08:52 · answer #4 · answered by doc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go for it! ok befor you go up to him take a deep breathe and go over what you are going to say. stay calm. it's only a guy. right? go up to him and ask. if he say's no he's a loser. so don't worry. you sound nice i think it will work! good luck my friend!
2006-10-19 18:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it...be confident...guys like that...
and the chances of getting turned down by a guy is a LOT lower than guys getting turned down by a girl..
good luck
2006-10-19 18:09:22 · answer #6 · answered by casj2006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like your self. Stay cool.And if you talk to him first, he will like you more because if you are shy he will be shy too. Which makes the date boring
2006-10-19 18:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by madi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm ready. What time and where, let me know. Have you ever ask your Mom or Dad for something, to have the problem of asking????????
2006-10-19 18:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by Toto 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just play it off casually that way if he says "honey you fine but i value your friendship" you can play it off sooooo much easier.
Say something like, i heard _______ movie was terrific you wanna see it with me tonight? But be cute enough he knows you're asking him out.
2006-10-19 18:09:08 · answer #9 · answered by Mr. Primetime 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
would u like to go out with me???
how hard can it be hun lol.
sorry dont mean to sound horrible.
goodluck hope he says yes to ya.
2006-10-19 18:08:33 · answer #10 · answered by alan h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋